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Started by Jannabear, January 24, 2016, 12:06:48 PM

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Jannabear

I hate when people dismiss someone with an excuse such as:
They're emotionally this way or that way
They're young
They're an extremist
They're racist (When it's something that isn't)
They're sexist (When it's something that isn't)
Etc.
It's fucking disgusting to see that level of intellectual dishonesty, this shit happens all of the time.
Fuck, even politicians do it.

doorknob

Yes I dismiss my own mother this way.

She's just borderline personality disorder. And no amount of explaining anything will help or change her. AKA lost cause.

Some times if you want to get along with some one you must dismiss their ugly side.

Sal1981

I find it's a sign that the opposing party has no argument, and because of that, they use dismissal to dodge answering/coming back with a counter-argument. At least, that's been my experience. A bit broad.

Atheon

Yes, I know (knew!) an SJW who summarily dismissed people for the most trivial of offenses. Between the people she's cut off and the people who have cut her off, it's a wonder she has any friends left. (Those few who remain hold to the hope that sh'll grow out of this phase when she realizes it leads nowhere good.)
"Religion is regarded by the common people as true, by the wise as false, and by the rulers as useful." - Seneca

Mermaid

I tend to dismiss people who are overly aggressive and angry. I don't put up with people who talk to me that way, it has nothing to do with my ability to argue.
A cynical habit of thought and speech, a readiness to criticise work which the critic himself never tries to perform, an intellectual aloofness which will not accept contact with life’s realities â€" all these are marks, not as the possessor would fain to think, of superiority but of weakness. -TR

Solomon Zorn

Quote from: Jannabear on January 24, 2016, 12:06:48 PM
I hate when people dismiss someone with an excuse such as:
They're emotionally this way or that way
They're young
They're an extremist
They're racist (When it's something that isn't)
They're sexist (When it's something that isn't)
Etc.
It's fucking disgusting to see that level of intellectual dishonesty, this shit happens all of the time.
Fuck, even politicians do it.
It's not good arguing, but everybody does it, at some time or another. We try to diminish an opinion, because of some objectionable quality of the person giving the opinion. I frequently dismiss republican presidential candidates out of hand. :wink2:
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TomFoolery

When it comes to dismissing the young, some situations almost demand it. When I think of a 13 year-old girl fighting with her mother about her boyfriend and she throws out something like, "You'll never understand our undying love for each other! We're going to be together forever, you'll see!" I can't help but roll my eyes. Of course it doesn't mean there aren't people who meet the love of their lives in middle school, but let's be honest, statistics aren't exactly in their favor.
How can you be sure my refusal to agree with your claim a symptom of my ignorance and not yours?

Baruch

One can be full of sound and fury ... but the important thing is ... let it signify more than nothing.  Put it to work.
Ha’át’íísh baa naniná?
Azee’ Å,a’ish nanídį́į́h?
Táadoo ánít’iní.
What are you doing?
Are you taking any medications?
Don't do that.

Munch

When my father was around, the only way I could live in the same house as him was to dismiss him, he drank all the time, yelled out Niggers every time a coloured person came on tv, and usually hissed homophobic remarks at me when I was in the other room. But he was never physically violent, but would have Bern mentally degrading if my mother hadn't taught me the way to cut yourself off from people like him.

That's probably why I didn't cry when he died, because cutting any emotional tie from a man I hated so much off it didn't impact me so much.
'Political correctness is fascism pretending to be manners' - George Carlin