Started by Valigarmander, June 10, 2015, 05:16:06 PM
Quote from: Solitary on June 12, 2015, 10:04:52 PMA chick? Really? Just because a person agrees with Dr. Ruth doesn't mean they think it is OK to rape a woman that says no, only that a lot of men do just that, and it is a bad practice for a women enticing a man to the point of nudity and putting themselves in that position. I don't think anyone here thinks it is OK to rape a woman who says no. I sure hope not.
Quote from: wbuentello on June 12, 2015, 09:37:57 PMHoly $h!t! Is this person serious or is this the village troll...
Quote from: aitm on June 12, 2015, 10:08:42 PMOh stop it Solitary, why, you are ruining the self-aggrandizing that some love to posture about.
Quote from: aitm on June 12, 2015, 10:14:26 PMquick question oh bastion ofâ€¦erâ€¦whatever you areâ€¦exactly how often do you crawl into bed and get naked with women that you do not want to have sex with? Are they little girls? Are they big ole fatties? What it is about you that would make you want to get naked and crawl into bed with women you don't want to have sex with? Really! I find this absolutely freaking fascinating.
Quote from: Mermaid on June 12, 2015, 05:46:32 PMI think the term "cock tease" really, really sucks. It implies a sort of entitlement to a woman's body, for one thing. I had that term used on me when I was young and not ready to have sex. It made me feel like there was something wrong with me. So I was bad if I was a cock tease. I was a slut if I had sex, too, though. Damned if you do, damned if you don't. We are one fucked up culture. That being said, I have been in that situation where I was naked in bed with someone and I said no to sex. It was a long time ago so I do not remember all the fine details, but I am guessing the reason I said no is as such: I wanted to have sex with him, but I didn't want to be a slut. It is NEVER OKAY to assume you can go there without consent.
Quote from: wbuentello on June 12, 2015, 10:25:50 PM she smells like a fish market".
Quote from: stromboli on June 12, 2015, 10:32:23 PMDid not mean to insult with that term, but in fact if you spend time in clubs or bars, especially where dancing is involved, there are women that will deliberately goad men into sexual arousal and then either shut them down or make claims that they were trying to rape them. Regardless of how offensive you might find that, it is a reality.
Quote from: aitm on June 12, 2015, 10:36:49 PMI have never crawled into bed with someone I didn 't want to have sex with..who many times have you?
Quote from: wbuentello on June 12, 2015, 10:54:25 PM slinging personal insults from the safety of you're screen...
Quote from: wbuentello on June 12, 2015, 10:54:25 PM Okay so she gets pissed off, and she did,
Quote from: aitm on June 12, 2015, 11:00:37 PMBut I see you think differently..what do the goats say.. or do you bother to even ask them?
Quote from: TomFoolery on June 12, 2015, 10:45:10 PMEven if "professional" cock teases are as commonplace as you seem to think it is, so what? It still sounds as though you believe they deserve whatever is coming to them for behavior you find frustrating. I'm sorry if some woman out there really raked you over the coals with skimpy clothes, doe-eyes, nudity and rape allegations, but don't hold the entire female gender responsible for the actions of an individual. Just like I would rather be optimistic and don't think all men would force themselves upon me if I laid naked in a bed with them.
Quote from: aitm on June 12, 2015, 10:03:50 PMYou are suggesting that the idea that someone should be cautious about their sexual adventures is an excuse for rape, I have not suggested that. I have at all times agreed that the good lady is mostly correct in her suggestions that people should not crawl into bed and invite sex and then demand it stop at anytime of her or his desire and expect positive outcomes. Her assertions are correct about human behaviors, our demands that we "should not" do that is irrelevant to the common behavior.You are welcome to dance around shout all you want about what we should and could do, but that is completely irrelevant to what human behavior seems to show us and despite all our grandstanding it appearsâ€¦.by the court cases that our assertions that we are better than that, may not indeed be true.
QuoteYeah, sorry, I am one of those guys that if you say you got raped and you were naked in a bed shoving some guys dick into your snatch, I have a hard time standing on your side of the table.