Stressed about conception

[TheGamingAtheist]

Maybe you didn't drink enough...
But in my defense it only says can not will.

Lol this is true

[TheGamingAtheist]

This reminds me of when a certain contact of mine told me that he shoots blanks because he was born in and lived for a certain amount of time in a house that was just across from a toxic waste dumping facility. I've researched this, and yes, environmental conditions are indeed barriers to either a man or woman's ability to conceive properly.

There is actually quite a few possibilities, and a specialist would be able to factually tell you what the situation is infinity times better than anybody here.

Well of course I know this, as far as getting answers.  I am mainly looking or hoping to gain advice from a woman similar to how I am feeling that has gone through the fear but I feel like I'm the only active woman on this forum. Lol

[stromboli]

There are any number of reasons why you aren't getting pregnant. There is nothing automatic about it. Bust stressing about it definitely doesn't help, because stress causes physiological changes in your body that can actually work against getting pregnant.

Like Johan said, get you both checked by the doctor. But any form of forcing the issue works against you, so relax.

[Johan]

Well of course I know this, as far as getting answers.  I am mainly looking or hoping to gain advice from a woman similar to how I am feeling that has gone through the fear but I feel like I'm the only active woman on this forum. Lol

Well I'm a guy so what could I possibly know about reproductive health? I'll tell you what I do know though. I know that when I can't get my tablesaw fence to align closer than 0.006 front to back and I'm bummed out about it and want to hear from other guys who have been through the same thing, I go to a tablesaw forum to ask about it rather than asking about it here and then moaning that I guess I'm the only one who owns a tablesaw here when I didn't get the answer I was looking for. I'm just sayin'.

[Mermaid]

I think a lot of people are under the impression that conceiving is easy and should happen really fast, and then when it doesn't, it's anxiety-inducing. I think what you are experiencing is pretty normal.
So deep breaths, doctor visits first and foremost.

[the_antithesis]

Step 2. This is step is more difficult. Forget about having a baby. You need to find a way to get your head to a place where you're perfectly ok with never having a kid. You need to get yourself to a place where you honestly believe deep down that you will live a happy fulfilling complete life whether you have ten kids or none. Its a hard step. But if it doesn't happen you will never stop putting pressure on yourself and on your guy. And pressure could be what's keeping the swimmers and the eggs from ever meeting. It is amazing what your brain can keep  your body from doing.

Maybe even try to get to the point where you don't want a kid. That seems to work awfully well for many teenagers.

[AllPurposeAtheist]

Get in a big argument over nothing and tell him he'll pay child support for 24 years minimum. That'll get ya pregnant.

[TheGamingAtheist]

Maybe even try to get to the point where you don't want a kid. That seems to work awfully well for many teenagers.

Lol I think teenagers actually WANT to get pregnant. They have hopes to get on teen mom here. I live 10 mins from Amber portwood and gary from teen mom so it's a fucking disease around here.

[the_antithesis]

Lol I think teenagers actually WANT to get pregnant. They have hopes to get on teen mom here. I live 10 mins from Amber portwood and gary from teen mom so it's a fucking disease around here.

Really? Around here the teen pregnancy has gone down because the kids are doing it in the butt.

[Shol'va]

I think a lot of people are under the impression that conceiving is easy and should happen really fast, and then when it doesn't, it's anxiety-inducing. I think what you are experiencing is pretty normal.
So deep breaths, doctor visits first and foremost.

It took my wife and I pretty much a couple weeks after she was off the pill.

I'm ... I'm not helping in this thread, am I?

Joking aside, stress is a big factor of not getting pregnant.

[Moralnihilist]

Whatever you do don't hit the other half in the junk. Thats bad for kids.

[wolf39us]

These babies have been saving me since I was 21!  :-)  (no kids)

[GalacticBusDriver]

Relax, it'll come.

[PickelledEggs]

These babies have been saving me since I was 21!  :-)  (no kids)

You perform abortions? You're like Kazakhstan's town mechanic and abortionist. Talented guy.

[spoiler]yes. I know he meant he got a vasectomy[/spoiler]

[wolf39us]

You perform abortions? You're like Kazakhstan's town mechanic and abortionist. Talented guy.

[spoiler]yes. I know he meant he got a vasectomy[/spoiler]

You wouldn't be performing abortions with that thing!