Stressed about conception

[TheGamingAtheist]

If someone could let me know how to delete this thread or get it deleted, I would appreciate it! This entire conversation took a turn for the worst and I no longer feel that it is necessary to discuss it. To those that offered advice, that pertained to the issue, I thank you a million times for it! To those that decided to do the opposite, I apologize that things didn't go as planned for this thread. We can all agree to agree, or agree to disagree. Have a good one.

[the_antithesis]

Take like about a hundred dice and then feel all stressed out how they don't all come up six.

Seriously, just keep trying. It can take time for lots of reasons. You've already been to a doctor. Keep going so you can keep your doctor up to date on what's going on and they can take further action if necessary.

[TheGamingAtheist]

Take like about a hundred dice and then feel all stressed out how they don't all come up six.

Seriously, just keep trying. It can take time for lots of reasons. You've already been to a doctor. Keep going so you can keep your doctor up to date on what's going on and they can take further action if necessary.

Yeah, I suppose That's all I can do. Many people have told me to just enjoy the sex life and not Focus so much on trying to conceive. But, That's so much easier said than done. Lol

[the_antithesis]

Take up latch rug making. It keeps your mind off all kinds of things. Like not getting any sex >:(

[TheGamingAtheist]

Take up latch rug making. It keeps your mind off all kinds of things. Like not getting any sex >:(

Lmfao, I'm assuming you're lacking in the pussy department. [emoji85]

[the_antithesis]

I don't know why. I'm so fucking charming.

[TheGamingAtheist]

I don't know why. I'm so fucking charming.

Lol, well then....I mean there's always escorts? [emoji117][emoji108]

[Moralnihilist]

I don't know what to tell you...

There may be a chance that it isn't you but him. Has he been checked?
My wife and I a while back were trying but it turns out that repeat groin kicks during my Muay Thai career rendered me infertile.

Of course if we could see said area that may or may not be the issue on you that might be beneficial :P

[TheGamingAtheist]

I don't know what to tell you...

There may be a chance that it isn't you but him. Has he been checked?
My wife and I a while back were trying but it turns out that repeat groin kicks during my Muay Thai career rendered me infertile.

Of course if we could see said area that may or may not be the issue on you that might be beneficial :P

Lol Wow, That's crazy and you're ridiculous haha

We are both making doctor appointments If we don't conceive by September.

[Johan]

Step 1. Have you had his swimmers counted? If not, do.
Step 2. This is step is more difficult. Forget about having a baby. You need to find a way to get your head to a place where you're perfectly ok with never having a kid. You need to get yourself to a place where you honestly believe deep down that you will live a happy fulfilling complete life whether you have ten kids or none. Its a hard step. But if it doesn't happen you will never stop putting pressure on yourself and on your guy. And pressure could be what's keeping the swimmers and the eggs from ever meeting. It is amazing what your brain can keep  your body from doing.

[TheGamingAtheist]

Step 1. Have you had his swimmers counted? If not, do.
Step 2. This is step is more difficult. Forget about having a baby. You need to find a way to get your head to a place where you're perfectly ok with never having a kid. You need to get yourself to a place where you honestly believe deep down that you will live a happy fulfilling complete life whether you have ten kids or none. Its a hard step. But if it doesn't happen you will never stop putting pressure on yourself and on your guy. And pressure could be what's keeping the swimmers and the eggs from ever meeting. It is amazing what your brain can keep  your body from doing.

Yeah,  I know. I've been told the same thing multiple times. It's hard to do that, like you said. I've always had this fear that I cannot conceive. I was an idiot as a teen and needless to say the stupid shit I did could have had bad effects on my reproductive system. The doctor I have now, I can hardly understand and he isn't well liked so I am thinking of reaching out to a better women's health center and having a woman gyno so she can relate better and offer the best solutions and advice. He is also going to get check by September If we don't conceive as I stated in my last response. I do appreciate the advice. I'm thinking of maybe trying different hobbies and such.

[Moralnihilist]

:)

[TheGamingAtheist]

:)

Lmfao,  I've tried this...not necessarily tried getting pregnant after getting drunk but drunk sex and No condom...it still didn't work lollll

[frosty]

This reminds me of when a certain contact of mine told me that he shoots blanks because he was born in and lived for a certain amount of time in a house that was just across from a toxic waste dumping facility. I've researched this, and yes, environmental conditions are indeed barriers to either a man or woman's ability to conceive properly.

There is actually quite a few possibilities, and a specialist would be able to factually tell you what the situation is infinity times better than anybody here.

[Moralnihilist]

Lmfao,  I've tried this...not necessarily tried getting pregnant after getting drunk but drunk sex and No condom...it still didn't work lollll

Maybe you didn't drink enough...
But in my defense it only says can not will.