This blog connects a lot of dots about the ideological conflict on the feminst/liberal/progressive circles.
http://helensatheistblogs.blogspot.pe/2016/02/why-i-no-longer-identify-as-feminist.html
Why I No Longer Identify as a Feminist.
I don't remember ever not being a feminist. I toddled in marches of the 1970s with my mother. She became a second wave feminist in the 1960s after being told by her employer that she could not study for accountancy exams because "There's no accounting for women," and being denied a mortgage without a male guarantor. Briefly flirting with radical feminism, she found their views extreme and unreasonable and was berated for her heterosexual relationships and love of feminine clothing (see her poem 'Woman the Barricades.) She found her home in liberal feminism and from there was active in writing, marching and protesting for legal changes which would give her the same opportunities as men. By the late 1980s, she felt the main legal battles had been won, and largely retired from active campaigning though she continues to identify as a feminist and study women's history.
Given this influence, of course I was a feminist, a liberal feminist. Growing up, I spoke angrily about the legality of rape within marriage (criminalised in 1990,) and won a personal battle to take woodwork at school rather than cookery (I was terrible at it but not noticeably worse than I am at cooking.) I criticised sexist attitudes at work, which were still quite unapologetic in the 90s, informing my boss that he was a 'good boy' when he called me a 'good girl' and refusing to say anything apart from 'cheep' to any man who referred to me as a 'bird.' Liberal feminism was aggressive then, but a quite different quality of aggression to the spiteful malevolence we see now. It was optimistic, almost playful. We were confident that we were winning. It was fun seeing how we could disconcert the perpetrators of sexist stereotypes and challenge casual sexism, often humorously. We did not think older men (or women) with sexist assumptions were terrible people or want them punished. We simply wanted them to realise the times had changed and catch up. Women are everywhere now. Get used to it.
At times, we needed to work with the radical feminists. Rape victims were still being dismissed or disbelieved. People still blamed victims for their clothing quite respectably. This needed to become routinely frowned upon. For liberal feminists, RadFems, who insisted that patriarchy was evident in everything, that the idea of gender needed to be destroyed and that men as a whole were dangerous and violent, were the biggest internal problem the movement had to contend with. Mostly, their extreme input into feminist discussion would be met with some eye-rolling and "Perhaps we don't need to go quite that far." We were unprepared for the problem rising in our own liberal branch.
From the 1980s, some reasonable criticisms of liberal feminism began to be made. Liberal feminism as a whole was charged with not recognising the additional problems faced by black and Asian women and lesbians, and being largely centred on middle-class problems. These were valid criticisms which needed addressing and prioritising within universally liberal feminism. All women must have equality. Many liberal feminists began to dedicate more time to LGBT rights and highlight the particular vulnerability of women living in communities which adhered to oppressive patriarchal religion, particularly Islam, and subjected women and girls to 'honour' violence and genital mutilation. But in this decade, the academic shift in the humanities and social sciences towards postmodernism began and gradually filtered through to feminism in praxis. Intersectionality was forming.
People are often confused about what postmodernism is and what it has to do with feminism. Very simplistically, it was an academic shift pioneered by Jean-Francois Lyotard and Jean Baudrillard which denied that reliable knowledge could ever be attained and claimed that meaning and reality themselves had broken down. It rejected large, overarching explanations (metanarratives) which included religion but also science, and replaced them with subjective, relative accounts (mininarratives) of the experiences of an individual or sub-cultural group. These ideas gained great currency in the humanities and social sciences and so became both an artistic movement and a social 'theory.' They rejected the values of universal liberalism, the methods of science and the use of reason and critical thinking as the way to determine truth and form ethics. Individuals could now have not only their own moral truths but their own epistemological ones. The expression 'It's true for me' encapsulates the ethos of postmodernism. To claim to know anything to be objectively true (no matter how well-evidenced) is to assert a metanarrative and to 'disrespect' the contrary views of others which is oppressive (even if those views are clearly nonsense.) The word 'scientism' was created for the view that evidence and testing are the best way to establish truths.
At its height, postmodernism as an artistic movement produced non-chronological, plotless literature and presented urinals as art. In social theory, postmodernists 'deconstructed' everything considered true and presented all as meaningless. However, having done this, there was nowhere else to go and nothing more to say. In the realm of social justice, nothing can be accomplished unless we accept that people of a certain race or gender or sexuality in a certain place experience certain disadvantages. For this, a system of reality needs to exist and so new theories of gender and race and sexuality began to emerge comprised of mininarratives. These categories were held to be culturally constructed and constructed hierarchically to the detriment of women, people of colour and LGBTs. Identity was paramount.
Liberal feminist aims gradually shifted from the position:
"Everyone deserves human rights and equality, and feminism focuses on achieving them for women."
to
"Individuals and groups of all sexes, races, religions and sexualities have their own truths, norms and values. All truths, cultural norms and moral values are equal. Those of white, western, heterosexual men have unfairly dominated in the past so now they and all their ideas must be set aside for marginalised groups."
Liberal feminism had shifted from the universality of equal human rights to identity politics. No longer were ideas valued on their merit but on the identity of the speaker and this was multifaceted, incorporating sex, gender identity, race, religion, sexuality and physical ability. The value of an identity in social justice terms is dependent on its degree of marginalisation, and these stack up and vie for primacy. This is where liberal feminism went so badly wrong. When post-colonial guilt fought with feminism, feminism lost. When it fought with LGBT rights, LGBT rights lost.
So aware of Western imperialism having trampled on other cultures historically, western liberal feminism now embraced their most patriarchal aspects. A western liberal feminist can, on the same day, take part in a slut walk to protest western women being judged by their clothing and accuse anyone criticising the niqab of Islamophobia. She can demand the prosecution of a Christian baker for refusing to bake a wedding cake for a same sex-couple, and condemn the planning of a Gay Pride march through a heavily Muslim area as racist. The worst intersectional feminists do not even limit themselves to the criticism of other white, western feminists but pour vitriolic, racist abuse on liberal Muslim and ex-Muslim feminists and LGBT activists. The misogyny and homophobia of Christianity may be criticised by all (quite rightly) but the misogyny and homophobia of Islam by none, not even Muslims. The right to criticise one's own culture and religion is seemingly restricted to white westerners. (The best analysis of 'The Racism of Some Anti-racists' is by Tom Owolade.)
Universal liberal feminists were horrified by this development. Our old adversaries, the Radical Feminists, looked positively rational in comparison. They might tell us we are culturally conditioned into internalised misogyny, and they certainly had a pessimistic and paranoid worldview but at least it was coherent. The Intersectional Feminists were not even internally consistent. In addition to the cultural relativity, the rules change day by day as new sins against social justice are invented. We opposed the Radical Feminists for their extreme antipathy towards men but at least they shared a bond of sisterhood with each other. The Intersectional Feminists not only exhibit great prejudice against men but also turn on each other at the slightest imagined infraction of the rules. Having not the slightest regard for reason or evidence, they vilify and harass those imagined to have transgressed.
In addition to their failure to support the most vulnerable women in society, intersectional feminism cultivated a culture of victimhood, negatively impacting all women in society but particularly young women. Women are oppressed, we are told, by men explaining anything, spreading their legs on a train and committing vague sins like 'expecting unequal amounts of emotional labour.' If they call out to us or proposition us, we should be terrified. If obnoxious men attempt to grope us or succeed, we have experienced an appalling sexual assault from which we may never recover. Not only are we oppressed by seemingly all men but by anyone expressing anti-feminist ideas or feminist ones we don't like. More than this, we are rendered 'unsafe' by them, particularly those women who are trans and may have to hear that a trans-exclusionary-radical-feminist has said something in a place they don't have to go to. It is hard to imagine how women manage to survive leaving the house at all.
Even in the house, we cannot be entirely sure of 'safety.' Men might say mean things to us on the internet, and we couldn't possibly cope with that. In reality, I find the opposite problem more concerning. Recently, I was disagreeing with an intersectional feminist man and he began to change his mind! Much encouraged, I continued the discussion. After some time, I checked his bio and spotted that he was carrying on a parallel conversation with another man in which he was expressing exactly the same views he had since changed in our conversation. Challenging him on this, I was informed that he did not feel he should disrespect my lived experience as a woman by contradicting it with his own views as a man. However, he still disagreed with me and felt able to say so to another man. I could not get him to see that all this had achieved was excluding me from the conversation and wasting my time. I might as well have been made to withdraw to the drawing room to let the men talk.
Perhaps men might criticise our academic writing or blogs? Richard Dawkins was accused of misogyny for mocking a postmodernist sociology essay that happened to have been written by a woman. (He'd mocked one written by a man a few days earlier.) He was asked, by numerous people, why he hated intelligent women or why he had to criticise women's writing? Surely, it should be clear to everyone that not doing so excludes women from academic discussion? If we want to be taken seriously as academics (or as bloggers,) we need people to be able to criticise our work.
Like many universal liberal feminists of my generation and above, I decided to hang on and try to tackle, from the inside, the problems of cultural relativity, science denialism, raging incivility and the disempowerment of women by feminists. This resulted in my being blocked by feminists, told I am not a feminist, called an 'anti-feminist,' an 'MRA', a 'misogynist' and even a 'rape apologist' (I had suggested that the men who invented date-rape drug detecting nail polish were well-intentioned.)I have been told to fuck myself with a rusty chainsaw, and that I am a confused middle-aged woman who does not understand society. Following one encounter with a feminist in which I said I did not get death and rape threats from men, a new account with a male name was suddenly set up which began sending me some.
At the same time, non-feminists were telling me that I was not what they understood by 'feminist' or even asserting that I was not a feminist. I assured them I was because I was concerned about female genital mutilation, 'honour' violence and forced marriage affecting British women today and rarely prosecuted. I am opposed to the disempowerment of young women who are being told that they cannot cope with different ideas and that criticism is abusive by feminists in universities and schools. Are these not pressing issues affecting women? My friend, Kath, a recovering RadFem, helped clarify my thoughts on this.
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This is true. I agree with Ayaan Hirsi Ali that western feminism needs to stop focusing on 'trivial bullshit.' I don't have a huge amount of sympathy for women who feel traumatised and excluded by scientists' shirts or video games. When it comes to the little things, the playing field becomes much more even. We all have gendered expectations we'd rather not comply with. I suggest not doing it. There is very little point in complaining about gender expectations whilst perpetuating them. The idea that women cannot defy such expectations because of fear of disapproval seems contrary to the entire ethos of feminist activism and those who have gone before us.
I think it's time I accepted that 'feminism' no longer means 'the aim for equal rights for women' but is understood to refer to the current feminist movement which encompasses so much more and very little that I want to be associated with. I posted this on Twitter recently.
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The serious issues faced by British women that I want to be involved in are encompassed by human rights activism, and the disempowerment of young women can only be opposed, sadly, by opposing feminism itself.
I used to be pleased when people told me that I had made them think more positively about feminism, but now I fear that this may simply have prevented that person from criticising a movement that really needs to be criticised. Feminism has lost its way and should not have public respectability until it remedies this. It seems that more and more people are realising this. A recent study showed that only7% of Brits identify as feminist although over two thirds support gender equality. My sadness at abandoning the identity bequeathed to me by my mother is mixed with anger when I consider that she too, a woman who was instrumental in getting banking qualifications opened to women, would now be regarded as deeply problematic.
This new movement, whatever label it carries, is hamstrung with so many internal inconsistencies that it will implode on its own.
Quote from: josephpalazzo on February 19, 2016, 05:09:37 PM
This new movement, whatever label it carries, is hamstrung with so many internal inconsistencies that it will implode on its own.
Indeed i think it has already or will soon reach its peak and come crashing down. If internet communities numbers are something to go by the biggest SJW feminist people have usually around 200k to 400k followers/members. The anti-SJW commentators and hubs have grown exponentially this last few years many surpassing their ideologically opposed commentators and hubs.
For example the gamergate reddit board has around 60k members that is more than 5 times as many people on the anti gamergate board. Tumblrinaction the biggest anti sjw board i have seen on the internet has 170k members and their biggest opponents are SRS at only 70k. And this are just subscribed people they get dwarfed harder on actual active users. Another funny indicator is thunderf00t and how his channel doubled in size in a few years since he got kicked out of the atheism+ blogs and started criticizing them on his videos. And how he grew almost 200k to reach 470k subscribers while anita sarkeesian has been stuck at 200k subscribers forever. On the internet there seems to be a faster growing number of people getting tired of their bullshit than those buying it
But according to the Internet, Dr Carson is the next President ;-(
I happen to agree that feminism today is mostly about politics and little about women. It is a subset of the Left. At that point I lost interest circa 1985. I treat women like a gentleman, and if anybody doesn't like that, they can pay my rent/monthly expenses.
During my brief forays into SJW-land, I could quite easily see that their system of beliefs is unsustainable and falls apart under scrutiny. This is why they resort to intellectually dishonest ways of shutting down debate. You question a belief with an attitude of intellectual curiosity, and they call you names and don't give you a chance to reply.
They alienate potential and existing allies to their cause. ("Hi! I oppose racism too. I've fought all my life against it. I'd like to help you in your struggle against racism." "But you're white, which means you're automatically a racist." "No, I'm not a racist; I'm an anti-racist." "How dare you not admit your racism, you cis-het white male scum!") And they easily turn on each other for failing to adhere to the Holy Writ, which seems to change by the day.
They also seem to glorify mental illness, rather than treat it as a problem to be solved.
I can't see their movement lasting much longer. Give me real liberalism, not this regressiveness.
She is not aware that she is actually criticising the evolution of American culture in the last several decades, but mourning for just what she can't idenitfy with any more. LOL You can write that article about other things in the US. And anyone who was born before 60s and went to a college can come up with the same angle in a given issue.
Americans need to learn that their country is not the world, nor it has a leading role in the issues of this sort and stop thinking that their country is OK because it is better than the Middle East.
:arrow: If a woman keeps getting DEATH and RAPE THREATS for saying her opinion out loud, because men don't like it, you are not much different than the Middle East. If a woman is being stopped from participating in an event, just because a man said so, again pretty much like the ME. So cut the crap. This only happens in the US in the West.
Feminism is NOT equal to SJWs just because it is in the US. Think of it like liberal art degree. It only exists in the US and pretty much useless everywhere.
I dare say, it appears to me that there are 5 women in the world who write about this stuff which is read by the other four and commented on by another 20 who happened to click on the link. The rest of the world goes about their daily lives surrounded by the buzz of their family and friends rather oblivious to the little prattle spouted by a few who think there is indeed a movement, when it was more of a fart.
Quote from: aitm on February 20, 2016, 08:12:13 AM
I dare say, it appears to me that there are 5 women in the world who write about this stuff which is read by the other four and commented on by another 20 who happened to click on the link. The rest of the world goes about their daily lives surrounded by the buzz of their family and friends rather oblivious to the little prattle spouted by a few who think there is indeed a movement, when it was more of a fart.
Pretty much like that.
But women get threatened when they say something people don't like.
Quote from: aitm on February 20, 2016, 08:12:13 AM
I dare say, it appears to me that there are 5 women in the world who write about this stuff which is read by the other four and commented on by another 20 who happened to click on the link. The rest of the world goes about their daily lives surrounded by the buzz of their family and friends rather oblivious to the little prattle spouted by a few who think there is indeed a movement, when it was more of a fart.
THANK YOU.
Quote from: Atheon on February 20, 2016, 04:21:34 AM
During my brief forays into SJW-land, I could quite easily see that their system of beliefs is unsustainable and falls apart under scrutiny. This is why they resort to intellectually dishonest ways of shutting down debate. You question a belief with an attitude of intellectual curiosity, and they call you names and don't give you a chance to reply.
They alienate potential and existing allies to their cause. ("Hi! I oppose racism too. I've fought all my life against it. I'd like to help you in your struggle against racism." "But you're white, which means you're automatically a racist." "No, I'm not a racist; I'm an anti-racist." "How dare you not admit your racism, you cis-het white male scum!") And they easily turn on each other for failing to adhere to the Holy Writ, which seems to change by the day.
They also seem to glorify mental illness, rather than treat it as a problem to be solved.
I can't see their movement lasting much longer. Give me real liberalism, not this regressiveness.
If the Flat Earth Society still exists, SJW's will be around for a while.
Quote from: Nonsensei on February 20, 2016, 09:24:58 AM
If the Flat Earth Society still exists, SJW's will be around for a while.
You realize this is an insult to the Flat Earth Society...
Quote from: josephpalazzo on February 20, 2016, 09:33:17 AM
You realize this is an insult to the Flat Earth Society...
No, flat-earthers are a special kind of stupid.
Fair and balanced (like Fox News).
Quote from: drunkenshoe on February 20, 2016, 06:56:48 AM
:arrow: If a woman keeps getting DEATH and RAPE THREATS for saying her opinion out loud, because men don't like it, you are not much different than the Middle East. If a woman is being stopped from participating in an event, just because a man said so, again pretty much like the ME. So cut the crap. This only happens in the US in the West.
Does it hurt to be this morally retarded? I would spell it out for you, but frankly you are delusional so it is worthless. The fact that you cannot see the disgrace of your statement in even remotely comparing mean words on the internet as being "pretty much like" the ME where there are marauding jihadist doing mass sex slavery and theocratic states that can legally crucify people. Jesus fucking christ your hatred of the west completely nullifies your ethical reasoning.
Also gotta love your obvious bias in the framing and word choice. Men dont threaten rape on women just because they dare share their opinions. People who are popular get hate by other people specially when they say controversial, false or stupid shit. Its always been like that and it almost never is about the sex of the participants, thousands of women are part of anti SJW hubs and would gladly call anita sarkeesian a cunt for being completely unable to be intellectual honest and accept criticism instead of labelling it as sexism. A minority of this critics may choose more aggresive methods like trying to inflict emotional pain on the person with words by making fake threats that they cannot even execute since they dont really want to or have the means to. Not one popular hated SJW has been hurt or has anyone attempted to do anything to them other than criticize them. Now tell me how many real activists in the ME have died?
Quote from: Atheon on February 20, 2016, 04:21:34 AMThey alienate potential and existing allies to their cause. ("Hi! I oppose racism too. I've fought all my life against it. I'd like to help you in your struggle against racism." "But you're white, which means you're automatically a racist." "No, I'm not a racist; I'm an anti-racist." "How dare you not admit your racism, you cis-het white male scum!") And they easily turn on each other for failing to adhere to the Holy Writ, which seems to change by the day.
Tell me about it (http://www.theblaze.com/stories/2015/11/11/mizzou-demonstrators-segregate-white-allies-to-form-black-only-healing-space/).
Imagine how MLK Jr would react to seeing these "progressives" shoo away white allies.
I mean for fucks sake right on this article you have a women getting threats by another women she disagreed with. And both of them were fucking feminists. Stop with the bullshit framing of the issue as men victimising women. We know for a fact this groups are gender diverse. And we know the crucial points of contention are about ideological differences not vaginas or penises. Well for people like you it does seem it is all about poor vaginas and mean penises.
Quote from: Hydra009 on February 20, 2016, 05:22:17 PM
Tell me about it (http://www.theblaze.com/stories/2015/11/11/mizzou-demonstrators-segregate-white-allies-to-form-black-only-healing-space/).
Imagine how MLK Jr would react to seeing these "progressives" shoo away white allies.
MLK warned us about this, he said the opressed should be vigilant to not turn themselves into oppresors to enact vengeance on the white man rather than seeking harmony between the races.
Quote from: aitm on February 20, 2016, 08:12:13 AM
I dare say, it appears to me that there are 5 women in the world who write about this stuff which is read by the other four and commented on by another 20 who happened to click on the link. The rest of the world goes about their daily lives surrounded by the buzz of their family and friends rather oblivious to the little prattle spouted by a few who think there is indeed a movement, when it was more of a fart.
Pssh, I wish it was only 5 women. I don't have the figures, but I don't doubt that they are numerically small in the grand scheme. But apparently, they have enough numbers to have a pretty strong presence on social media (their witch-hunt targets get quite a litany of hate) and tumblr. They even have people in some mainstream publications and manage to get some airtime on TV as well. Disproportionate influence to be sure, but influence nonetheless.
Quote from: Hydra009 on February 20, 2016, 05:31:18 PM
Pssh, I wish it was only 5 women. I don't have the figures, but I don't doubt that they are numerically small in the grand scheme. But apparently, they have enough numbers to have a pretty strong presence on social media (their witchunt targets get quite a litany of hate) and tumblr. They even have people in some mainstream publications and manage to get some airtime on TV as well. Disproportionate influence to be sure, but a presence nonetheless.
They do as i shared some numbers in a previous post their numbers are no lower than 300k. And as you point out there are various big publications in which they hold influence. Like gawker, jezebel,salon, the guardian (fucking jessica valenti man) the huffpost, the mary sue, everyday feminism, feministing, we hunted the mammoth.
Quote from: mauricio on February 20, 2016, 05:30:05 PM
MLK warned us about this, he said the opressed should be vigilant to not turn themselves into oppresors to enact vengeance on the white man rather than seeking harmony between the races.
He also said to judge people by their character, not their skin color. That's another lesson that apparently fell on deaf ears.
Quote from: Hydra009 on February 20, 2016, 05:31:18 PM
Pssh, I wish it was only 5 women. I don't have the figures, but I don't doubt that they are numerically small in the grand scheme.
I suppose, the only place I have ever heard of such a "thing" is on this forum. My forays into the social world happens only 6 of the seven days of the week so perhaps they unite in a massive roil on that odd day I take a nap.
I have even seen their influence spread into the legislation of my shitty third world country that loves taking the worst ideas of both sides of the political spectrum. On the same fucking day the congress rejected civil unions they passed a street harrasment law that criminalized specifically men from even looking at woman "the wrong way" which is not fucking defined and left to the discretion of the fucking accuser to define.
Quote from: aitm on February 20, 2016, 05:36:33 PM
I suppose, the only place I have ever heard of such a "thing" is on this forum. My forays into the social world happens only 6 of the seven days of the week so perhaps they unite in a massive roil on that odd day I take a nap.
Frankly this is a generational issue, the millineals are the ones in this fight on both sides. If you do not share the millineal browsing habits you have been spared from their bullshit, rejoice.
Quote from: mauricio on February 20, 2016, 05:37:11 PM
I have even seen their influence spread into the legislation of my shitty third world country that loves taking the worst ideas of both sides of the political spectrum. On the same fucking day the congress rejected civil unions they passed a street harrasment law that criminalized specifically men from even looking at woman "the wrong way" which is not fucking defined and left to the discretion of the fucking accuser to define.
That law also made it so giving a game of thrones book to my 16 years old cousin as a gift should be punished with no less than 3 years in jail also known as shanky rapey town. Because of written sex scenes. Also an accusation by a women that you whistled at her, or looked at her too much is enough to get you into a public list of sex offenders. Yahoo!
The silver lining is that the police infrastructure of the country makes this laws meaningless because they cant police for shit.
Quote from: mauricio on February 20, 2016, 05:34:25 PM
They do as i shared some numbers in a previous post their numbers are no lower than 300k. And as you point out there are various big publications in which they hold influence. Like gawker, jezebel,salon, the guardian (fucking jessica valenti man) the huffpost, the mary sue, everyday feminism, feministing, we hunted the mammoth.
Not to mention the Atheism+ presence that has effectively divided the atheist community. Steve Shives seriously floating the idea of policing the atheist community. Dawkins getting disinvited by fellow atheists for linking to a video ridiculing a caricature of the more extreme feminists. Etc.
And then there's Freethought Blogs:
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A thread about feminism and SJWs? There's no way this will turn into a shit flinging contest or a circle jerk.
Quote from: The Skeletal Atheist on February 20, 2016, 06:00:02 PM
A thread about feminism and SJWs? There's no way this will turn into a shit flinging contest or a circle jerk.
I have had countless reasonable debates about this topic, sadly with drunken shoe it has never happened, because she dismissed me from the outset because apparently im a privileged white male and an american nationalist. Even though im a mestizo who lives in latin america and dislikes all forms of chauvinism.
Everything you write is again a very good demonstration of you are being clueless about real world and that all you 'know' is about internet media. You agree with her because she denounces the word feminism, not because you can understand her experience. You are living these 'issues' through a character designed and a side chosen by vloggers and bloggers who actually make money from this.
It's a fact that IN THE US women who get loud about their opinion are threatened. THey ARE THREATENED by RAPE and DEATH. This happened. And still happening.
Do you have the basic intelligence to understand the nature of threatening someone for holding a conference, making a speech about her opinions? Or are you that much of a child that you think it is just nothing?
I DON'T GIVE A FUCK WHAT WATSON OR SARKEESIAN THINK. If a woman cannot avoid millions of online attacks just because a group of men WERE OFFENDED by what they are saying, stop talking about how hostile and bitchy SJWs are OR how they are just acting out of being OFFENDED.
Shut the fuck up about the gender equality while you cannot provide a safe ground for someone to say their opinion about it out loud, while the whole fucking America CANNOT SHUT UP about how much of a 'freedom of speech' they have. Bullshit. You have colourfully painted, polished and marketed bullshit. And it makes money.
This is exactly what is going on the Middle East. How stupid someone needs to be to fool themselves into that it is something else when it happens in their own country? How stupid you need to be to ignore this and still go on with a fucking apologist rhetoric trying to make this look right somehow?
That's why there is no arguing point and that's why I dismiss you as a kid. Because you are a v/blog triggered angry kid.
Quote from: aitm on February 20, 2016, 05:36:33 PM
I suppose, the only place I have ever heard of such a "thing" is on this forum. My forays into the social world happens only 6 of the seven days of the week so perhaps they unite in a massive roil on that odd day I take a nap.
:lol:
Quote from: drunkenshoe on February 21, 2016, 06:58:11 AM
Everything you write is again a very good demonstration of you are being clueless about real world and that all you 'know' is about internet media. You agree with her because she denounces the word feminism, not because you can understand her experience. You are living these 'issues' through a character designed and a side chosen by vloggers and bloggers who actually make money from this.
It's a fact that IN THE US women who get loud about their opinion are threatened. THey ARE THREATENED by RAPE and DEATH. This happened. And still happening.
Do you have the basic intelligence to understand the nature of threatening someone for holding a conference, making a speech about her opinions? Or are you that much of a child that you think it is just nothing?
I DON'T GIVE A FUCK WHAT WATSON OR SARKEESIAN THINK. If a woman cannot avoid millions of online attacks just because a group of men WERE OFFENDED by what they are saying, stop talking about how hostile and bitchy SJWs are OR how they are just acting out of being OFFENDED.
Shut the fuck up about the gender equality while you cannot provide a safe ground for someone to say their opinion about it out loud, while the whole fucking America CANNOT SHUT UP about how much of a 'freedom of speech' they have. Bullshit. You have colourfully painted, polished and marketed bullshit. And it makes money.
This is exactly what is going on the Middle East. How stupid someone needs to be to fool themselves into that it is something else when it happens in their own country? How stupid you need to be to ignore this and still go on with a fucking apologist rhetoric trying to make this look right somehow?
That's why there is no arguing point and that's why I dismiss you as a kid. Because you are a v/blog triggered angry kid.
So after that whine are you feeling good now? How about some actual non irrelevant shit i can respond too about my actual claims? Come on my childish arguments must be easy peasy for a big girl like you.
Tune in next week to find out if Mauricio will ever stop whinging about feminists and SJWs. Next week on As The Forum Turns.
Frankly I am rather miffed that my use of the word "roil" was completely ignored as being rather clever.
Quote from: Mermaid on February 21, 2016, 07:44:22 PM
Tune in next week to find out if Mauricio will ever stop whinging about feminists and SJWs. Next week on As The Forum Turns.
Oh hey look someone taking a potshot without adding anything relevant to the conversation wonder why? Oh right you are still salty because you posted that RAINN page about sexual assault statistics which cited contradictory research without bating an eye. Trying to lump all the numbers together to create a frankenstein of paranoid hysteria in which you are more likely to get raped than to own a fucking dog.
http://atheistforums.com/index.php?topic=8557.msg1095747#msg1095747
Or is it because you a had a metldown and started swearing at me because i said in the chat you were intuitive for guessing some of my characther traits but not very instrospective for being unable to retrace the intuition path and expose why did you arrive to those conclusions.
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Quote from: mauricio on February 20, 2016, 06:14:22 PM
I have had countless reasonable debates about this topic, sadly with drunken shoe it has never happened, because she dismissed me from the outset because apparently im a privileged white male and an american nationalist. Even though im a mestizo who lives in latin america and dislikes all forms of chauvinism.
Quote from: drunkenshoe on February 21, 2016, 06:58:11 AM
Everything you write is again a very good demonstration of you are being clueless about real world and that all you 'know' is about internet media. You agree with her because she denounces the word feminism, not because you can understand her experience. You are living these 'issues' through a character designed and a side chosen by vloggers and bloggers who actually make money from this.
It's a fact that IN THE US women who get loud about their opinion are threatened. THey ARE THREATENED by RAPE and DEATH. This happened. And still happening.
Do you have the basic intelligence to understand the nature of threatening someone for holding a conference, making a speech about her opinions? Or are you that much of a child that you think it is just nothing?
I DON'T GIVE A FUCK WHAT WATSON OR SARKEESIAN THINK. If a woman cannot avoid millions of online attacks just because a group of men WERE OFFENDED by what they are saying, stop talking about how hostile and bitchy SJWs are OR how they are just acting out of being OFFENDED.
Shut the fuck up about the gender equality while you cannot provide a safe ground for someone to say their opinion about it out loud, while the whole fucking America CANNOT SHUT UP about how much of a 'freedom of speech' they have. Bullshit. You have colourfully painted, polished and marketed bullshit. And it makes money.
This is exactly what is going on the Middle East. How stupid someone needs to be to fool themselves into that it is something else when it happens in their own country? How stupid you need to be to ignore this and still go on with a fucking apologist rhetoric trying to make this look right somehow?
That's why there is no arguing point and that's why I dismiss you as a kid. Because you are a v/blog triggered angry kid.
Quote from: mauricio on February 21, 2016, 07:33:21 PM
So after that whine are you feeling good now? How about some actual non irrelevant shit i can respond too about my actual claims? Come on my childish arguments must be easy peasy for a big girl like you.
Shit flinging it is.
Luckily I've brought my umbrella!
(Note: I do know I sling shit from time to time. I've even have sling shit with both of you in the past. That being said, observing is fun as well...my shit is still the most odorous and sticky!)
Quote from: The Skeletal Atheist on February 22, 2016, 12:53:22 AM
Shit flinging it is.
Luckily I've brought my umbrella!
(Note: I do know I sling shit from time to time. I've even have sling shit with both of you in the past. That being said, observing is fun as well...my shit is still the most odorous and sticky!)
Well like i said she is clearly more interested in criticizing me as a person than my ideas so¯\_(ãƒ,,)_/¯ i gave up on having a proper discussion with her after i realized she has a hard time understanding the actual meaning of my sentences and would rather stick with her misinterpretation even after i expanded and properly explained what i meant. Seems to be in part due to a language barrier. I find her english rather confusing at times too and my grammar can get messy too. This compounded with using sarcasm and reductio ad absurdum arguments can make my point hard to see.
Quote from: Mermaid on February 21, 2016, 07:44:22 PM
Tune in next week to find out if Mauricio will ever stop whinging about feminists and SJWs. Next week on As The Forum Turns.
I don't think he can help it. You'll say 'you are not helping it either', but I think this is something different.
Quote from: The Skeletal Atheist on February 22, 2016, 12:53:22 AM
(Note: I do know I sling shit from time to time. I've even have sling shit with both of you in the past. That being said, observing is fun as well...my shit is still the most odorous and sticky!)
Then this is shit flinging more than observation. Well the stink... He has been constantly insulting everyone who disagrees with him. He keeps telling what I am, what I am thinking...etc. He writes about something and lies about blatantly. He doesn't answer to anything properly. He is living something in his head. This is not really funny.
Quote from: aitm on February 21, 2016, 08:11:27 PM
Frankly I am rather miffed that my use of the word "roil" was completely ignored as being rather clever.
Roil is a very good word.
Quote from: mauricio on February 21, 2016, 08:13:13 PM
Oh hey look someone taking a potshot without adding anything relevant to the conversation wonder why? Oh right you are still salty because you posted that RAINN page about sexual assault statistics which cited contradictory research without bating an eye. Trying to lump all the numbers together to create a frankenstein of paranoid hysteria in which you are more likely to get raped than to own a fucking dog.
http://atheistforums.com/index.php?topic=8557.msg1095747#msg1095747
Or is it because you a had a metldown and started swearing at me because i said in the chat you were intuitive for guessing some of my characther traits but not very instrospective for being unable to retrace the intuition path and expose why did you arrive to those conclusions.
(http://i1.kym-cdn.com/photos/images/original/000/976/327/98f.png)
Yes. Absolutely this.
Quote from: drunkenshoe on February 22, 2016, 04:53:59 AM
I don't think he can help it. You'll say 'you are not helping it either', but I think this is something different.
If you have the energy, get down with your bad self. I don't know how you do it. I dismissed him a long time ago as an ignorant, tirelessly angry and argumentative person who is incapable of seeing anyone else's perspective other than his own. I don't think there is any helping that. I don't have conversations with people who do not respect me and who I do not respect.
Quote from: Mermaid on February 22, 2016, 07:58:32 AM
If you have the energy, get down with your bad self. I don't know how you do it. I dismissed him a long time ago as an angry, ignorant, young and irrational person. I don't think there is any helping that. Not my job, man.
You are right. I don't know, I have a diffculty to let go. He is an angry-bitter kid. People never really feel alien to me and I have that familiar-no circumstance attitude to mess up with them. Nobody likes it of course. But in his case, it looks like something else behind it. Which brings us to your point.
Quote from: Mermaid on February 22, 2016, 07:58:32 AM
If you have the energy, get down with your bad self. I don't know how you do it. I dismissed him a long time ago as an ignorant, tirelessly angry and argumentative person who is incapable of seeing anyone else's perspective other than his own. I don't think there is any helping that. I don't have conversations with people who do not respect me and who I do not respect.
Your projection is hillarious because literally the first significant interaction between us was in that thread i posted where you started challenging me by posting the RAINN page which I thoroughly showed to be dishonest with proper citations and you just responded : "there's something wrong with you" which was disrecpectful and cowardly before i had said anything attacking you personally. The only thing i did to trigger your antipathy was debunk a feminist page with some snark directed at their failure to use statistics with dilligence. But obviously it is my fault that no rational dialogue can occur. Whatever you need to tell yourself to believe you are actually open minded about feminist topics.
BTW you are still welcomed to actually respond to that criticism of the RAINN page if you want to show everyone else you are indeed capable of having a conversation about the topic and i will engage you with no snark or insults as long as you keep it like that too, then we can truly see if im such an irrational angry person.