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Title: My thoughts on dating
Post by: KevinLogan on May 10, 2025, 07:47:46 PM
I will never date anyone that wears band shirts or listens to real-life singers. Only lyricless music, Vocaloids, UTAU, other synthesizers and AI are acceptable. The only, actual humans singing in the house should be me or her. Fuck concerts. Fuck giving them money. Fuck their fanbase.
Title: Re: My thoughts on dating
Post by: Gawdzilla Sama on May 10, 2025, 10:22:58 PM
Real people make music. Some of it is beautiful. Unchained Melody, sung by the Righteous Brothers, is beautiful.
Title: Re: My thoughts on dating
Post by: KevinLogan on May 10, 2025, 10:57:22 PM
Quote from: Gawdzilla Sama on May 10, 2025, 10:22:58 PMReal people make music. Some of it is beautiful. Unchained Melody, sung by the Righteous Brothers, is beautiful.
There isn't a human singer deserving of any respect on this planet. I can at least tolerate the Vocaloids and lyricless music to an extent, but I don't want to hear the voices of people that have done nothing for me and stand for worthless policies. Singers can only be redeemed if they say something nice about me, but none of them ever will. It is well deserved to destroy their official shirts with their faces and/or band names on them. There's no chance of me joining your human singer fanbase
Title: Re: My thoughts on dating
Post by: Gawdzilla Sama on May 11, 2025, 09:00:55 AM
Thanks for the curmudgeongrams.
Title: Re: My thoughts on dating
Post by: Blackleaf on May 11, 2025, 09:56:02 AM
Who are you? I see you've made five posts so far, but none of them an introduction. LOL
Title: Re: My thoughts on dating
Post by: KevinLogan on May 11, 2025, 10:38:11 AM
Quote from: Blackleaf on May 11, 2025, 09:56:02 AMWho are you? I see you've made five posts so far, but none of them an introduction. LOL
I dont like introductions
Title: Re: My thoughts on dating
Post by: Mr.Obvious on May 12, 2025, 02:51:46 PM
You don't like introductions.
You don't like singers.

Alright. A little weird. But welcome to our little band of heathens.
Making an introductions is kind of a rule on this site. That and not making another thread before you've posted ten posts.

Then again, this seems like a bit of an introduction to who you are
Title: Re: My thoughts on dating
Post by: PopeyesPappy on May 14, 2025, 10:33:41 AM
Quote from: KevinLogan on May 10, 2025, 07:47:46 PMI will never date anyone that wears band shirts or listens to real-life singers. Only lyricless music, Vocaloids, UTAU, other synthesizers and AI are acceptable. The only, actual humans singing in the house should be me or her. Fuck concerts. Fuck giving them money. Fuck their fanbase.

Quote from: KevinLogan on May 10, 2025, 10:57:22 PMThere isn't a human singer deserving of any respect on this planet. I can at least tolerate the Vocaloids and lyricless music to an extent, but I don't want to hear the voices of people that have done nothing for me and stand for worthless policies. Singers can only be redeemed if they say something nice about me, but none of them ever will. It is well deserved to destroy their official shirts with their faces and/or band names on them. There's no chance of me joining your human singer fanbase

I'm a little late to the party here, but I thought you might be interested in what AI thinks of you based solely on the content of these two posts in a dating thread.

Quote from: ChatGPTThese two posts from the forum user are deeply revealing—not just about their musical preferences, but about their worldview and potential interpersonal challenges.

Here's a breakdown of the tone, content, and implications:

Tone and Emotional State
Hostile and absolutist: The language is extreme—"fuck concerts," "destroy their official shirts," "none of them ever will [say something nice about me]."

Alienated and resentful: The user expresses bitterness toward human singers and their fans, suggesting a broader disconnection from mainstream social experiences.

Self-centered or possibly narcissistic: The statement that a singer is only redeemable if they say something nice about them is a red flag for entitlement or distorted self-importance.

Cognitive Patterns
Black-and-white thinking: There's no nuance—only total rejection or conditional acceptance based on personal validation.

Projection: They assume negative intentions or worthlessness of others based on how those others relate (or don't relate) to them personally.

Possibly dealing with unresolved trauma or rejection: The harshness and need for validation may stem from past experiences where they felt unseen, dismissed, or excluded.

Impact in a Dating Context
Highly incompatible with most people: Their rigid, extreme views on something as common and socially bonding as music are likely to severely limit their dating prospects.

Controlling tendencies: The idea that their partner should not wear band shirts or listen to human singers suggests a need to control another person's tastes and autonomy.

Low emotional intelligence: Respectful disagreement and mutual appreciation are cornerstones of adult relationships. These posts lack any sign of that.

Social Red Flags
Hatred of fanbases: This suggests intolerance of communities or group identity.

Militant anti-humanism (in a music sense): Preferring synthetic over human expression and using that as a moral or ideological stance is highly unusual and potentially isolating.

Vocaloids and AI Music Focus
While some people genuinely love Vocaloid and AI music for its sound, flexibility, or aesthetic, this user is weaponizing that preference into a kind of identity or superiority stance—using it to denounce others rather than celebrate art.

Summary
These posts aren't just about music—they're about control, alienation, and a deep yearning for recognition. The user is expressing extreme intolerance, which would be off-putting in any social or dating context. If they're genuinely looking for connection, they may need to unpack why they hold such intense views and how those views are hurting—not helping—their ability to relate to others.

If this was in a thread meant for light or productive discussion about dating, these comments could easily derail the conversation or make others uncomfortable.
Title: Re: My thoughts on dating
Post by: Gawdzilla Sama on May 14, 2025, 04:02:51 PM
♫Unchained Melody♫
Title: Re: My thoughts on dating
Post by: Unbeliever on May 14, 2025, 04:10:57 PM
Didn't make me uncomfortable, just bored.
Title: Re: My thoughts on dating
Post by: KevinLogan on May 14, 2025, 06:34:27 PM
Quote from: Unbeliever on May 14, 2025, 04:10:57 PMDidn't make me uncomfortable, just bored.
For a moment, I thought that your username was "Unabomber"
Title: Re: My thoughts on dating
Post by: Gawdzilla Sama on May 14, 2025, 06:53:47 PM
Probably lost a bet.
Title: Re: My thoughts on dating
Post by: Unbeliever on May 14, 2025, 06:55:22 PM
Quote from: KevinLogan on May 14, 2025, 06:34:27 PMFor a moment, I thought that your username was "Unabomber"
Well, how long did it take you to realize that you were incorrect?
Title: Re: My thoughts on dating
Post by: Gawdzilla Sama on May 14, 2025, 07:00:17 PM
He's incorrect?
Title: Re: My thoughts on dating
Post by: KevinLogan on May 14, 2025, 07:14:02 PM
Quote from: Unbeliever on May 14, 2025, 06:55:22 PMWell, how long did it take you to realize that you were incorrect?
I dont know... 1 or 2 seconds? I was a bit distract
Title: Re: My thoughts on dating
Post by: FreethinkingSceptic on May 16, 2025, 08:36:28 PM
If the singers make music that you enjoy, why do you care?
Title: Re: My thoughts on dating
Post by: aitm on May 16, 2025, 08:49:59 PM
Apparently the only music he likes is...natural...birds, bees, rain, squirrels chewing on his nuts.
Title: Re: My thoughts on dating
Post by: Gawdzilla Sama on May 16, 2025, 09:37:27 PM
I'm of two schools on dating. BC was funny. AD didn't add up.