Why is that?
That's a really good question, I wish I had a really good answer. 🤔
They hate children.
Or they really love children.
Abnormal PSYCH classes at Purdue were fun. (My then wife was fascinated with serial killers. She didn't have the wherewithal to attend classes regularly.) Child rapists were a special case that demanded a special hell that religion couldn't provide.
Because the verses directly addressing that child sexual abuse is an abomination have been subverted by Christian leaders to abuse gay people. It's a huge fuck up, especially egregious in light of the fact that the specific child sexual abuse that's an abomination in the Bible was between a priest and a young boy working in the same church.
Huh. I wonder if this could somehow apply to churches today...
The word Pedophile, or pedophilia are being used a bit loosely.
The simplest way to start here is by saying it is an attraction, not an action.
Next even if you do not know this there are many people who are pedophiles, but do not take action on their attractions. I never have taken action on those sort of things, and at the end so far, 98% of the time to begin with, I always ended up going for the opposite in age difference, what I mean is I always preferred a few years older than I. Many times it was often near to 10 years over, and my life-partner was 22 years older than I.
Material on my storage.
Real CP (0) My attractions be damned, I avoid things which hurt real people.
Shota around 150 to 200.
A thing called animal stuff, `1,000+
It is an Inkbunny dot net thing.
I am an atheist, and also in many ways a pedophile too. I am not an abuser, as some lines are illegal to cross for good reason.
I believe some people automatically think pedophile means abuser right away, and that would be a no. I am also a Plushophile, which is not in a dictionary, just means stuffed toy lover. And if you can see my Avatar / icon, then you see who my favorite guy is right now.
https://www.dropbox.com/scl/fi/x4qbj8sly76hxand6f80u/IMG_20240907_233208_489-1.jpg?rlkey=84x0lvj8dqtm12i32tcvevdmw&st=31do9ejc&dl=0
https://www.dropbox.com/scl/fi/66jekpq2xk22xd15ixmwy/IMG_20240907_233211_692-1.jpg?rlkey=03i5847z2b74e0u2mvr2vnr3x&st=jpkuie5p&dl=0
Nothing inappropriate, just me with Nubs.
May the Force Be With You. LOL.
I suggest you whittle up a new Latin phrase that isn't so loaded. I know people who would do violence to anyone using that term to describe themselves, and then apologize to the next of kin.
Maybe I did not make it clear. Before I type much, I don't like this forum, does not even feel as though I can reply to anyone directly. But my Pedophile attractions are actually minimal compared to everything else, or was that not clear? Even with the majority of what I have on my computer, it should be obvious my interest in that sort of thing is quite minimal at best.
I am a plushophile way before anything else, even human. Trying to keep the (s) word or details out as much as I can, but a stuffed toy cannot grow up messed up for life. I real person can.
Another thing about it is, I never asked for it, nor did I ever want it in the first place. People no more choose that then Gay/Straight/Bisexual and so on.
Trying to keep sexual things out, as I am sure it is against the rules, it often is, unless you are on a site for it. But I am hope this is not going too far I prefer Stuffed Toys to humans, and hopefully I did not go too far already.
I hope you got that.
Don't ask, went over that and part of that one sentence makes no sense.
Let me just say I have 0 desire to ever hurt anyone.
You go into somebody's home, you follow their rules. Or you get out. Or worse.
Quote from: Gawdzilla Sama on September 09, 2024, 06:45:26 PMYou go into somebody's home, you follow their rules. Or you get out. Or worse.
Like laws, there's reasons sometimes very good to follow these things.
Are you saying you think I would break laws or rules?
I agree with a thing I sometimes say short called an AOC, Age Of Consent.
Does not even matter, if I want anyone Human, my aim is no younger than 25.
I always prefer stuffed toys, so what are you getting at?
Quote from: FievelNNubs on September 10, 2024, 05:53:40 PMAre you saying you think I would break laws or rules?
You have already. Being obtuse won't work as an appeal.
Quote from: Gawdzilla Sama on September 10, 2024, 06:03:03 PMYou have already. Being obtuse won't work as an appeal.
Huh?
What are you talking about?
Quote from: FievelNNubs on September 07, 2024, 11:47:53 PMThe word Pedophile, or pedophilia are being used a bit loosely.
The simplest way to start here is by saying it is an attraction, not an action.
Next even if you do not know this there are many people who are pedophiles, but do not take action on their attractions. I never have taken action on those sort of things, and at the end so far, 98% of the time to begin with, I always ended up going for the opposite in age difference, what I mean is I always preferred a few years older than I. Many times it was often near to 10 years over, and my life-partner was 22 years older than I.
Material on my storage.
Real CP (0) My attractions be damned, I avoid things which hurt real people.
Shota around 150 to 200.
A thing called animal stuff, `1,000+
It is an Inkbunny dot net thing.
I am an atheist, and also in many ways a pedophile too. I am not an abuser, as some lines are illegal to cross for good reason.
I believe some people automatically think pedophile means abuser right away, and that would be a no. I am also a Plushophile, which is not in a dictionary, just means stuffed toy lover. And if you can see my Avatar / icon, then you see who my favorite guy is right now.
https://www.dropbox.com/scl/fi/x4qbj8sly76hxand6f80u/IMG_20240907_233208_489-1.jpg?rlkey=84x0lvj8dqtm12i32tcvevdmw&st=31do9ejc&dl=0
https://www.dropbox.com/scl/fi/66jekpq2xk22xd15ixmwy/IMG_20240907_233211_692-1.jpg?rlkey=03i5847z2b74e0u2mvr2vnr3x&st=jpkuie5p&dl=0
Nothing inappropriate, just me with Nubs.
May the Force Be With You. LOL.
I would come up with a different way to describe it. The word "pedophile" carries certain connotations, implying that you've pursued, abused, or at the very least desire minors. Maybe a better term to describe what you're into is "age play." Or maybe just don't talk about it. I tend to be more open minded about these things, as long as you're not causing harm, but entering a community and saying, "I'm a pedophile" generally isn't going to get you a lot of friends.
Also, this thread has basically been derailed now. It was supposed to be about the apparent tie between Christianity and pedophilia, and how churches tend to protect their abusers. Now it's become about you.
Quote from: Blackleaf on September 10, 2024, 06:33:35 PMI would come up with a different way to describe it. The word "pedophile" carries certain connotations, implying that you've pursued, abused, or at the very least desire minors. Maybe a better term to describe what you're into is "age play." Or maybe just don't talk about it. I tend to be more open minded about these things, as long as you're not causing harm, but entering a community and saying, "I'm a pedophile" generally isn't going to get you a lot of friends.
Also, this thread has basically been derailed now. It was supposed to be about the apparent tie between Christianity and pedophilia, and how churches tend to protect their abusers. Now it's become about you.
I did not mean to make it about me.
And no matter what, as long as you are attracted you are still technically a pedophile. The word does not mean abuse, it is an attraction, but that is being ignored as if it always follows abuse, it does not.
The other point is that they can be both places, not just in Christianity, and not all of them abuse anyone. If anyone is bothering to read anything, most of what I have is allowed on Inkbunny, and they are actually very strict about humans period. Not even (18) on (18). People need to stop associating pedophiles as abusers, they are not the same thing. I never ever abused one time. It doesn't make me less attracted, but the choice comes into it whether or not to abuse, I chose not every time. It hurts a real person, so I don't do it. I don't even collect any real stuff, as listed the number is (0).
There's a lot of people with these feelings, I am trying to show there's a difference from an abuser and just a person who is attracted.
Pedophile - Attraction, NOT an action.
I never done abuse one time ever.
I'm just saying. I don't even announce my atheism to people outside of this forum, because I know people would treat me differently. If you go around telling people you're a pedophile, don't be surprised when you get negative reactions.
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Quote from: Blackleaf on September 10, 2024, 07:25:21 PMI'm just saying. I don't even announce my atheism to people outside of this forum, because I know people would treat me differently. If you go around telling people you're a pedophile, don't be surprised when you get negative reactions.
I do it very carefully, and most know I have these attractions. I am also very strict on the AOC and believe in it well enough to even have a strong opinion of the abuser. Not that I care about human things much anyways, I love stuffed toys more than humans, and they also don't grow up, so they cannot grow up messed up. But I myself would shoot an abusers you know what off, as I am extremely against any and all abuse. Again people need to stop associating it with abuse right away.
Shota is an alternative which I don't even have much of that either. I like a thing you should know the word well enough but it is (Fiction) as it hurts no one.
There's a difference between just having the attractions and actually acting on them, I never ever act, as it hurts someone.
Thanks though.
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A couple things actually, not all pedophiles are Christians. Not that I ever acted on it, most times I ended up preferring people older than me and not even slightly younger, my life partner was 22 years older.
But pedophile does not always mean abuser, and I wish people would get that.
Thanks.
Sexual relations with underage people is illegal almost everywhere. IIRC one of the rules of this forum is "no promoting illegal activities." (My brain is not shiny new any more so I may have misremembered that.)
I can just wrap my head around someone having a sexual attraction and not acting upon it due to underdtanding that it is wrong
Be it being attracted to animals, close relatives, children, corpses, or, i don't know, fucking mailboxes or something.
But to anyone saying 'i wouldn't touch a kid, i only dream of doing that'... I would not let you be near my kid. Let alone unsupervised. I will always be weary and, more than a bit, disgusted of you. And i would never knowingly become your friend.
Is that unfair? Unreasonable? Discriminating? Maybe. But i don't really care even if it is. The revulsion is just instantaneous, overpowering and undeniable.
Is it selfish of me to say that if you are one of these hidden, non-offending minor-attracted-people, you should bare your cross in silence...? I can see the argument for that. Wanting to be accepted for who you are is a normal human desire.
But I really don't want you to. Maybe that can be concidered opressive on my part.
But i can not stress how much i don't want anyone or anything to even possible contribute in any way to the normalization of the attraction to children.
In this case, i'd rather have a million non-offending pedophiles 'suffering' in silence than one child more than otherwise would have been, maybe thirty or figty years from now, being fiddled with because we arrive to a society in which even one more pedophile feels emboldened to maybe, just maybe, breaking their own celibacy, just this once.
And i feel like if, as non offending pedophile, you truly understand why you shouldn't ever touch a kid innapropriatly, you would tend to agree with this point of view. Because you would agree that the welbeing of children is always the priority over personal desires and wants.
My father was abandoned when his mother and her new husband left Arkansas for California. This was in the 1930s. Henry was taken in by a local preacherman who loaned him out for manual labor. He didn't get to finish the fifth grade.
Now, we have a discarded child, a preacher who had to pay for the kid's food somehow, and some characters who thought being alone in an isolated barn with a sweet young redhead was worth every penny they gave the reverend. Dad was warped, it showed if you knew where to look. He hated me, but not enough to leave the lone farm girl he got knocked up. So he tried to kill me. Five times I know of, kill or "just get lost, kid." The first time he stopped on a bridge over a reservoir and had me get up on the rail. He may have been in his car and moving on before I hit the water. Luckily a guy was tied up to one of the pilings and fished me out. I didn't know our address but I knew the name of the farmer the parents sharecropped for, so I eventually found my way back "home". After that things went down hill.
Is any of that caused by being raped repeatedly? I don't know. But I wouldn't bet against it.
Fast forward 36 years. I'm standing beside a grave late at night, taking a piss. The groundsman comes up to me and says "You must be his boy."