I myself was a scapegoat who had been bullied (and kicked out) in many forums. People have bullied me and then when I call them out, they view ME as the bully trying to control them. Here's an example of this in the link below (P.S. I am the OP in the link's thread):
https://funhsps.forumotion.com/t4435-i-hate-when-people-complain-about-words-being-misused#61266
The user was being insensitive to me, ignoring my struggles with depression. She thought she was being cute by trying to lighten the load she threw on me, but I called her out and she took it personally and started to harass me. She then brought over a moderator to penalize me because she knew damn well that the majority of the users were completely in HER favor (I was also bullied by a couple of mods).
I'm leaving that forum for good because it's too toxic for me.
You sound like a bully.
I had a forum admin say that I had threatened to shoot her in the head. Couldn't produce a post to support that. I just pulled the pin.