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JournoNYC Visitor

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Posted: Tue Apr 01, 2008 11:34 am Post subject: Journalist writing about atheists who go to church |
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Hi everyone.
I'm writing a story for a national news service about atheists, agnostics and other secular thinkers who attend churches. It can be a church specifically for atheists (like the North Texas Church of Freethought) or a church that accepts atheists (like a humanist synagogue) or a straight-up traditional church (like a Catholic one).
I'm interested in hearing from people who have been to church as an atheist, who have made it a part of their lives, or who would never consider it. If you'd like to participate -- and it would be a great chance to get more atheist voices in the media -- then please reply to this thread or PM me.
Thanks!
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Raskolnikov The Axe Murderer

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Posted: Tue Apr 01, 2008 11:36 am Post subject: |
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I went when I was 1, 7, and 12 years old. Haven't been to one since. _________________ "Shake off all the fears of servile prejudices, underwhich weak minds are servilely crouched. Fix reason firmly in her seat and call on her tribunal for every fact, every opinion. Question with boldness even the existence of a God, for if there be one, he must more approve of the homage of reason, than that of blindfolded fear."
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JournoNYC Visitor

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Posted: Tue Apr 01, 2008 11:41 am Post subject: |
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Thanks, I'll try to get in touch with him.
So there are people here who attend churches? |
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Moloth Coin Operated Boy

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Posted: Tue Apr 01, 2008 11:44 am Post subject: |
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| JournoNYC wrote: | Thanks, I'll try to get in touch with him.
So there are people here who attend churches? |
indeed. many do so for the simple familial, social and/or traditional ties. some go because they are too young to effectively say "no!".
others, rarely, seem to enjoy it.
give this thread 24 hours, to make sure you give a good sample of the people time to post. _________________ -=The Believer is Happy; the Skeptic is Wise=-
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caseagainstfaith God's gift to atheism

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Posted: Tue Apr 01, 2008 11:47 am Post subject: |
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I had considered checking out the "Houston Church of Freethought" as I live in Houston. But, never got around to it. I think there are closet atheists around here who attend church with their family. And I know an atheist that attends a Unitarian church. But for myself, I don't bother with that. _________________ Please visit my site at www.caseagainstfaith.com featuring critiques of Lee Strobel and other apologetics
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RyanDzundza Sock Puppet

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i used to get forced to go as a youngster untill me and my sister got older and basically told our parents enough was enough,
i still go to weddings and funerals of those closest to me, which be roman catholic ceremonies except my grandads funeral which was Ukrainian orthadox iirc
i get asked to go to things like christinings and baptisms but since i am strongly against the indoctrination of children i politely theres no way im going to them, some of my family think im being a tad pathetic about that but i couldnt care less what they think about it since i find all religions totally pathetic
we also went to mass a few times to get out of lessons in school but we never actually went we just darted off as soon as we could
i once had to go get my dad out of a church because there was an emergency at his work, if that counts lol
im not sure how much detail you wanted so if you have any questions feel free to ask here or PM _________________
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Posted: Tue Apr 01, 2008 12:11 pm Post subject: |
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I'm a former Christian. My wife is still a Christian so I go to church quite a bit. We go to an evangelical, Bible-believing, non-denominational church.
Great topic, btw. I'm interested in participating if you would like, and I'm particularly interested in reading the story once it's done! _________________ "If we long to believe that the stars rise and set for us, that we are the reason there is a Universe, does science do us a disservice in deflating our conceits?"
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JournoNYC Visitor

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Posted: Tue Apr 01, 2008 12:13 pm Post subject: |
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| Mr_C wrote: | I'm a former Christian. My wife is still a Christian so I go to church quite a bit. We go to an evangelical, Bible-believing, non-denominational church.
Great topic, btw. I'm interested in participating if you would like, and I'm particularly interested in reading the story once it's done! | Interesting... do you feel you get anything out of going to church with your wife? Did you grow up going to church?
If you want to be part of the article, PM me your name and phone number. |
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Posted: Tue Apr 01, 2008 12:16 pm Post subject: |
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| JournoNYC wrote: | | Mr_C wrote: | I'm a former Christian. My wife is still a Christian so I go to church quite a bit. We go to an evangelical, Bible-believing, non-denominational church.
Great topic, btw. I'm interested in participating if you would like, and I'm particularly interested in reading the story once it's done! | Interesting... do you feel you get anything out of going to church with your wife? Did you grow up going to church?
If you want to be part of the article, PM me your name and phone number. |
The only thing I really get out of going to church with my wife is the knowledge that I'm doing something with my family, and supporting my wife in her interests.
I did grow up going to church, but it wasn't at all like the one I go to now.
I'll go ahead and PM ya. |
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Godless Red Scum Forum Leader

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Posted: Tue Apr 01, 2008 12:41 pm Post subject: |
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| Outside of funerals and weddings I haven't been to church in a very long time, but for a while even as an "out-of-the-closet" atheist, I'd still go to Christmas services for tradition's sake. I don't come from a very religious family, but we'd always do the Christmas eve (at a nearby Presbyterian church) or midnight mass (at a Catholic church) thing. |
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Posted: Tue Apr 01, 2008 12:45 pm Post subject: |
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| Godless Red Scum wrote: | | Outside of funerals and weddings I haven't been to church in a very long time, but for a while even as an "out-of-the-closet" atheist, I'd still go to Christmas services for tradition's sake. I don't come from a very religious family, but we'd always do the Christmas eve (at a nearby Presbyterian church) or midnight mass (at a Catholic church) thing. | So for you, it was one of the last things to go after coming "out of the closet"?  |
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BarkAtTheMoon O Captain, my Captain

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I grew up going to a fairly liberal Episcopal church. About the only time I go back to that church is for the Christmas Eve service with family, and I occasionally have gone to Methodist churches with other family. For the most part, I'm just as bored if not moreso than when I was a kid and "believed" * About the only positive thing about going back is seeing old friends I grew up with, and the Episcopal church is very old, built in the mid 1700's, so it looks pretty neat at night with all the candles and poinsettias all over the place, plus I do like some of the Christmas songs. In general, I've found both to be much more conservative than I remember, and I tend to be more critical in actually thinking about the readings and the sermons, and it usually makes me laugh inside at the absurdity of it.
* - Since I've been an atheist and really thought about it, I've come to the conclusion that I don't think I ever really believed. Church was just something we had to do on Sundays, but I never cared one way or the other enough to think it through. I was always skeptical and science minded and by high school I was calling myself agnostic with the only type of god I could entertain being a deistic, "Scholar's God" type of thing, that a just god wouldn't damn me for questioning and using the intellect "he gave me."
Edit: Oh yeah, I went to my cousin's wedding a couple years ago. They're very religious and were doing missionary work until she got pregnant, and the service (her uncle was the pastor no less) was constantly about how she and her husband were worthless, their relationship was worthless, everyone was worthless, and only a relationship with Jesus had any meaning....at her wedding. Fucking creepy. My dad made a comment afterwards about how preachy the service was. _________________ "The very existence of flame throwers proves that some time, somewhere, someone said to themselves, 'You know, I want to set those people over there on fire, but I'm just not close enough to get the job done.' - George Carlin
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Godless Red Scum Forum Leader

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Posted: Tue Apr 01, 2008 12:59 pm Post subject: |
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| JournoNYC wrote: | | Godless Red Scum wrote: | | Outside of funerals and weddings I haven't been to church in a very long time, but for a while even as an "out-of-the-closet" atheist, I'd still go to Christmas services for tradition's sake. I don't come from a very religious family, but we'd always do the Christmas eve (at a nearby Presbyterian church) or midnight mass (at a Catholic church) thing. | So for you, it was one of the last things to go after coming "out of the closet"?  |
Well, maybe I shouldn't have used the term "coming out of the closet". I meant to say I did not hide the fact I was an atheist. Had little reason to and the only people in my family who would be shocked by such a thing are my fundamentalist aunt and uncle (and to a lesser extent my grandma).
Yeah, I guess it was one of the last things to go, but it's not like I actively avoid it now, it's just that my grandparents died a few years ago, my mom lives far away and is not terribly religious (an agnostic Catholic, if that makes sense), one pair of aunt and uncle are completely agnostic, another pair atheist (and live far away from both me and my mom), and one, as mentioned above, are fundies (and kinda on the outs with everyone else). So really the only reason we don't go to church for Christmas anymore is that the family unit has become atomized and we're not all together around holidays anymore. A lot of Christians will tell you the church is the glue that holds the family together, but in my case it was kinda the reverse-- we went to church only because we were together as a family. When we started going our separate ways is when we stopped going to church.
If my grandparents were still alive, and everyone living in the same area and on relatively good terms with each other, I really don't see any reason why I wouldn't still go to Christmas services, or even the occasional Sunday Mass. |
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