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Mr_C Reckoner

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Posted: Fri Dec 28, 2007 8:36 am Post subject: |
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| lumpymunk wrote: | | I think the reason he got offended is because he's a huge vagina. You should find his locker and stick a bag of dog shit in it. |
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jesuschrshit Exterminator

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Posted: Fri Dec 28, 2007 9:41 am Post subject: |
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Respect (like love and trust) is something that must be earned and not an inherent right. So, no, it is not wrong of you to have no respect for anyone who believes in any kind of voodoo, has imaginary friends and doesn't respect you. Having said that, I was raised to respect everyone regardless of who they were or what they stood for but that mentality doesn't work all that well in a society such as this one. In line with my upbringing, I always respected so called religious people; however, they have never respected me. Living up North was easier to deal with it and coexist with that kind but since moving to the Bable Belt, I have learned to "do unto others as others would do unto you" (or whatever that shit is!). The religious right themselves have taught me and shown me that they are not worthy of any kind of respect, sympathy or compassion.
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Mr_C Reckoner

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Posted: Fri Dec 28, 2007 10:41 am Post subject: |
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As Moloth would say, if you don't want me to make fun of your beliefs, stop having such silly beliefs
Srsly tho, why (at least here in the US) are beliefs so untouchable? I was talking to my boss the other day and the subject of Tom Cruise came up.
I commented that I really lost some respect for him with the whole "Scientology thang". My boss just blew it off by saying, "Well his personal beliefs are his personal beliefs..."
I'm sorry but if that is the norm in my society, then I want to test it - to burn it to the fucking ground - because it's complete and utter bullshit. I don't have to respect your fucking delusion, just because it is, afterall, your personal favorite fucking delusion. I don't have to keep my hands off of your mind-fuck as if it is some sort of sacred right for you to believe in complete falsities for the reason that you believe in it personally.
Tom Cruise believes in space aliens and woo-woo bullshit, and if I want to make fun of and piss all over that 'untouchable' piece of shit which his mind-sphincter has squeezed out after years of letting magical thoughts and woo-woo-fantasy in, I will feel justified in doing so.
/rant _________________ "If we long to believe that the stars rise and set for us, that we are the reason there is a Universe, does science do us a disservice in deflating our conceits?"
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Jutter Quixotic Cloggy

Joined: 26 Jul 2003 Posts: 6611 Local time: 10:28 AM Location: Den Helder, the Netherlands

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Posted: Fri Dec 28, 2007 1:04 pm Post subject: |
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| Moloth wrote: | | Knight_of_BAAWA wrote: | It's not respect that they are all due. Rather, all humans are due their rights, and we "respect" those.
Respect for the person is earned by that person. Respect for the beliefs is earned by the beliefs making some sense and being correct. |
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I've come to have my doubts about distribution respect or condemnation by the head. I prefer to narrow it down further and judge a person's decissions and deeds seperately. But I do think a person you find yourself in disagreement with is easier to reason with if you try to leave the other's dignity intact. There's a difference between encouraging those who trip to crawl back on their feet, and giving someone a hard time over tripping... we all trip occasionally. _________________ ~ Let us be reasonable ~
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Moloth Coin Operated Boy

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Posted: Fri Dec 28, 2007 1:38 pm Post subject: |
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| Jutter wrote: | | Moloth wrote: | | Knight_of_BAAWA wrote: | It's not respect that they are all due. Rather, all humans are due their rights, and we "respect" those.
Respect for the person is earned by that person. Respect for the beliefs is earned by the beliefs making some sense and being correct. |
well said. |
I've come to have my doubts about distribution respect or condemnation by the head. I prefer to narrow it down further and judge a person's decissions and deeds seperately. But I do think a person you find yourself in disagreement with is easier to reason with if you try to leave the other's dignity intact. There's a difference between encouraging those who trip to crawl back on their feet, and giving someone a hard time over tripping... we all trip occasionally. |
the trick, for me, is this: if people keep their foolish ideas in their head (by not performing deeds), then how am i to ever know what they are? the mere fact that i KNOW a persons beliefs means that they have either spoken of them or acted in away to reveal them. in either case, they have thrown their beliefs out there in front of me. it is not my duty to ignore their beliefs. it is THEIR duty to keep them hidden, if they do not wish people to see, comment or disagree with them.
I do NOT go around and ASK people what they believe. i;ve found that people are quite happy to tell you their deepest feelings and beliefs at the drop of a hat and even in inappropriate situations. if THEY bring up the topic, how am *I* at fault for commenting on it? THEY set the situation. _________________ -=The Believer is Happy; the Skeptic is Wise=-
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Jutter Quixotic Cloggy

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Posted: Fri Dec 28, 2007 2:03 pm Post subject: |
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| Moloth wrote: | | Jutter wrote: | | Moloth wrote: | | Knight_of_BAAWA wrote: | It's not respect that they are all due. Rather, all humans are due their rights, and we "respect" those.
Respect for the person is earned by that person. Respect for the beliefs is earned by the beliefs making some sense and being correct. |
well said. |
I've come to have my doubts about distribution respect or condemnation by the head. I prefer to narrow it down further and judge a person's decissions and deeds seperately. But I do think a person you find yourself in disagreement with is easier to reason with if you try to leave the other's dignity intact. There's a difference between encouraging those who trip to crawl back on their feet, and giving someone a hard time over tripping... we all trip occasionally. |
the trick, for me, is this: if people keep their foolish ideas in their head (by not performing deeds), then how am i to ever know what they are? the mere fact that i KNOW a persons beliefs means that they have either spoken of them or acted in away to reveal them. in either case, they have thrown their beliefs out there in front of me. it is not my duty to ignore their beliefs. it is THEIR duty to keep them hidden, if they do not wish people to see, comment or disagree with them.
I do NOT go around and ASK people what they believe. i;ve found that people are quite happy to tell you their deepest feelings and beliefs at the drop of a hat and even in inappropriate situations. if THEY bring up the topic, how am *I* at fault for commenting on it? THEY set the situation. |
Nothing wrong with that, and I never said there was.
It seems like I didn't make it suficiently clear, that my doubts aren't towards criticizing the topic in specific, as you just described, but towards extending that criticism to the person in general. Hense you won't find me respecting or condemning a person in total. Some things that person does I'll respect, some I won't. Everyone's a mixed bag in my experience. _________________ ~ Let us be reasonable ~
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ShaSha Moderator


Joined: 21 Oct 2003 Posts: 4755 Local time: 3:28 AM Location: Minnesota
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Posted: Fri Dec 28, 2007 3:08 pm Post subject: |
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| Mr_C wrote: | As Moloth would say, if you don't want me to make fun of your beliefs, stop having such silly beliefs
Srsly tho, why (at least here in the US) are beliefs so untouchable? I was talking to my boss the other day and the subject of Tom Cruise came up.
I commented that I really lost some respect for him with the whole "Scientology thang". My boss just blew it off by saying, "Well his personal beliefs are his personal beliefs..."
I'm sorry but if that is the norm in my society, then I want to test it - to burn it to the fucking ground - because it's complete and utter bullshit. I don't have to respect your fucking delusion, just because it is, afterall, your personal favorite fucking delusion. I don't have to keep my hands off of your mind-fuck as if it is some sort of sacred right for you to believe in complete falsities for the reason that you believe in it personally.
Tom Cruise believes in space aliens and woo-woo bullshit, and if I want to make fun of and piss all over that 'untouchable' piece of shit which his mind-sphincter has squeezed out after years of letting magical thoughts and woo-woo-fantasy in, I will feel justified in doing so.
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It's possible your boss is wiser and knows it is a waste of time? Who cares what you think of Tom? Tom certainly doesn't. Your fellow worker doesn't want to hear your rant about your opinion of him. So your boss might have just nicely been telling you to get a life since there is no sense in getting hot and bothered about something that doesn't affect you. What a bore when a fellow worker wants to vent about something that doesn't affect him or her IMO. What a waste of brain cells.
Of course you don't have to respect his beliefs but I daresay if it is your fellow worker that is another story unless of course the person puts it up for comment. We are as a civilized society respecting each other's space. If you want to violate that in your work space then you are the equvalent of a fundamental religionist who would cram it down your throat.
I also have to ask, why did you ever have respect for Tom Cruise? He's an actor and a stranger. There's something to like in his acting or not. Otherwise without knowing him closely, how could he have ever earned your respect only to lose it? If you liked his acting, then that hasn't changed. |
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SalsaShark has filled in a custom rank.

Joined: 07 Aug 2006 Posts: 995 Local time: 7:28 PM Location: Regina SK CAN

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Posted: Fri Dec 28, 2007 3:33 pm Post subject: |
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I don't even think it is possible to respect a belief. I'm old school and I think the only thing you can respect if a fellow human being (or a sentient alien I guess).
If you take the position that respect is earned, then somehow a belief must earn respect. Now, suppose you hear good arguments for a belief, what then are you respecting, the belief or the person arguing for it? Suppose you hear bad arguments for a belief, once again who are you losing respect for, the belief or the person arguing in favour of it? In both cases, my respect/lack thereof goes entirely to the person and not the belief. The belief itself obviously cannot be earning respect because the person is arguing for it.
Now as far as I can see that only leaves beliefs that inherently deserve respect. But then it's respect wasn't earned, and we have a contradiction.
All in all I think you can respect people based on their beliefs and their ability to argue for them, but respecting the belief itself just seems like a waste of time/incoherent to me. Furthermore, since this Christian could not defend his beliefs and tried to make you feel bad when you could defend your belief, he doesn't have my respect. _________________
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Mr_C Reckoner

Joined: 26 Jun 2006 Posts: 6546 Local time: 2:28 AM Location: Pale Blue Dot

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Posted: Fri Dec 28, 2007 3:41 pm Post subject: |
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| ShaSha wrote: | | Mr_C wrote: | As Moloth would say, if you don't want me to make fun of your beliefs, stop having such silly beliefs
Srsly tho, why (at least here in the US) are beliefs so untouchable? I was talking to my boss the other day and the subject of Tom Cruise came up.
I commented that I really lost some respect for him with the whole "Scientology thang". My boss just blew it off by saying, "Well his personal beliefs are his personal beliefs..."
I'm sorry but if that is the norm in my society, then I want to test it - to burn it to the fucking ground - because it's complete and utter bullshit. I don't have to respect your fucking delusion, just because it is, afterall, your personal favorite fucking delusion. I don't have to keep my hands off of your mind-fuck as if it is some sort of sacred right for you to believe in complete falsities for the reason that you believe in it personally.
Tom Cruise believes in space aliens and woo-woo bullshit, and if I want to make fun of and piss all over that 'untouchable' piece of shit which his mind-sphincter has squeezed out after years of letting magical thoughts and woo-woo-fantasy in, I will feel justified in doing so.
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It's possible your boss is wiser and knows it is a waste of time? Who cares what you think of Tom? Tom certainly doesn't. Your fellow worker doesn't want to hear your rant about your opinion of him. So your boss might have just nicely been telling you to get a life since there is no sense in getting hot and bothered about something that doesn't affect you. What a bore when a fellow worker wants to vent about something that doesn't affect him or her IMO. What a waste of brain cells.
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Or, he could have been echoing the popular cultural meme that "we should respect each other's personal beliefs".
Since you weren't there, I'll just suggest that you take my word for it.
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I also have to ask, why did you ever have respect for Tom Cruise? He's an actor and a stranger. There's something to like in his acting or not. Otherwise without knowing him closely, how could he have ever earned your respect only to lose it? If you liked his acting, then that hasn't changed. |
I had the same respect for TC that I have by default for just about everybody. In my eyes, he is now a punchline to a bad joke. |
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ChrissyFos Lobal Dominatrix

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Posted: Fri Dec 28, 2007 3:59 pm Post subject: |
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Tom Cruise is crazy, but he still gets mad props for being so great in Vanilla Sky. I love that movie. TECH SUPPORT! TEEEECH SUPPOOOOORT! _________________ This space is reserved for inarticulate meat puppets who have no true perspective outside the refuge of quotation marks.
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lumpymunk Forum Master


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Posted: Fri Dec 28, 2007 4:02 pm Post subject: |
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| Mr_C wrote: | | lumpymunk wrote: | | I think the reason he got offended is because he's a huge vagina. You should find his locker and stick a bag of dog shit in it. |
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Win _________________ “Here, here's American Gladiators. Watch this, shut up, go back to bed America, here is American Gladiators, here is 56 channels of it! Watch these pituitary retards bang their fucking skulls together and congratulate you on the living in the land of freedom. Here you go America - you are free to do what well tell you! You are free to do what we tell you!” ~ B.Hicks
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Raskolnikov The Axe Murderer

Joined: 22 Oct 2007 Posts: 1884 Local time: 2:28 AM Location: Las Vegas

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Posted: Fri Dec 28, 2007 4:21 pm Post subject: |
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| RyanDzundza wrote: | i think if we respected christianity we might just add to christians delusions that their right, though i dont respect any religious beliefs i wont say it to the person unless they directly asked me if i respected their religion
i think were you went wrong is that he said he respected your beliefs and you sort of went out your way to tell him you didnt respect his, if that makes sense, he may also have thought u had zero respect for him as a person which might be true but i think thats possibly why he called you an asshole
i take it the school board has let you keep your atheist club then, apart from this little mishap hows it going |
Well he literally knew NOTHING about science/atheism. Then after just 15 minutes of discussion he respects my beliefs? I think one should dedicate much more time learning about something before respecting it, that's why I got mad and went out of my way to tell him.
About the Atheist Club, the school let us hold it in the Lunchroom on Mondays. I would prefer to do it in a teacher's room (because of projectors for powerpoint presentations and what not) but no teacher wants to host it. It gets annoying when all you have are lunch tables and a big blank wall you have to tape posters on =P So I'm still looking for a teacher to host the club. _________________ "Shake off all the fears of servile prejudices, underwhich weak minds are servilely crouched. Fix reason firmly in her seat and call on her tribunal for every fact, every opinion. Question with boldness even the existence of a God, for if there be one, he must more approve of the homage of reason, than that of blindfolded fear."
-Thomas Jefferson
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Bukaj Forum Plebian


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Posted: Fri Dec 28, 2007 4:35 pm Post subject: |
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Respect in the sense of understanding another's motives for doing something is one thing.
Respect in the sense of being wary of the fury of the sea or the danger of a wild animal is another altogether.
Nowadays 'respect' for religion is more out of fear than anything. _________________ Of all the things I've lost, I miss my mind the most. |
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ShaSha Moderator


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Posted: Fri Dec 28, 2007 5:16 pm Post subject: |
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| Mr_C wrote: | | ShaSha wrote: | | Mr_C wrote: | As Moloth would say, if you don't want me to make fun of your beliefs, stop having such silly beliefs
Srsly tho, why (at least here in the US) are beliefs so untouchable? I was talking to my boss the other day and the subject of Tom Cruise came up.
I commented that I really lost some respect for him with the whole "Scientology thang". My boss just blew it off by saying, "Well his personal beliefs are his personal beliefs..."
I'm sorry but if that is the norm in my society, then I want to test it - to burn it to the fucking ground - because it's complete and utter bullshit. I don't have to respect your fucking delusion, just because it is, afterall, your personal favorite fucking delusion. I don't have to keep my hands off of your mind-fuck as if it is some sort of sacred right for you to believe in complete falsities for the reason that you believe in it personally.
Tom Cruise believes in space aliens and woo-woo bullshit, and if I want to make fun of and piss all over that 'untouchable' piece of shit which his mind-sphincter has squeezed out after years of letting magical thoughts and woo-woo-fantasy in, I will feel justified in doing so.
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It's possible your boss is wiser and knows it is a waste of time? Who cares what you think of Tom? Tom certainly doesn't. Your fellow worker doesn't want to hear your rant about your opinion of him. So your boss might have just nicely been telling you to get a life since there is no sense in getting hot and bothered about something that doesn't affect you. What a bore when a fellow worker wants to vent about something that doesn't affect him or her IMO. What a waste of brain cells.
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Or, he could have been echoing the popular cultural meme that "we should respect each other's personal beliefs".
Since you weren't there, I'll just suggest that you take my word for it.
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I also have to ask, why did you ever have respect for Tom Cruise? He's an actor and a stranger. There's something to like in his acting or not. Otherwise without knowing him closely, how could he have ever earned your respect only to lose it? If you liked his acting, then that hasn't changed. |
I had the same respect for TC that I have by default for just about everybody. In my eyes, he is now a punchline to a bad joke. |
I won't take your word for it just because you were there. I believe you too would be skeptical of taking just my word. But you did ask the question so I gave an opinion Don't ask if you don't want diversity
So unlike many others here, you do give respect to people in a default way, they don't have to earn it? That's cool with me both ways but as I said it is a non value issue. Tom doesn't need your respect, only his. Self respect is the best. No gods need to approve nor others. |
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RyanDzundza Sock Puppet

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Posted: Fri Dec 28, 2007 5:27 pm Post subject: |
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Well he literally knew NOTHING about science/atheism. Then after just 15 minutes of discussion he respects my beliefs? I think one should dedicate much more time learning about something before respecting it, that's why I got mad and went out of my way to tell him.
About the Atheist Club, the school let us hold it in the Lunchroom on Mondays. I would prefer to do it in a teacher's room (because of projectors for powerpoint presentations and what not) but no teacher wants to host it. It gets annoying when all you have are lunch tables and a big blank wall you have to tape posters on =P So I'm still looking for a teacher to host the club. |
ah right, if he is that stupid i say what you did isnt wrong,
its to bad you havent found a teacher who is willing but at least you managed to get something, its a start _________________
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