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| Is having children wrong? |
| No - and it's actually a moral imperative for many people to breed (barring high chance of congenital illness, etc.) |
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| It's permissible, but not necessary. It's ultimately a personal choice that can be right for some and wrong for others |
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| For many people, yes. But if there's a good chance of a charmed life, a person may procreate ethically |
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| Yes - it is ethically wrong for anyone to have children |
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Philosophos When we look at you, we see an asshole

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Posted: Mon Mar 17, 2008 12:24 am Post subject: Antinatalism |
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Antinatalism is the view that it is wrong to procreate. I was personally first made aware of this view by Hookflash on the old IG forums. This view was most recently defended by David Benatar in his book Better To Never Have Been, with roots in Schopenhauer. The argument is involved (in order to defend against defeaters), but can be distilled to an informal syllogism:
1) It is wrong to inflict harm
2) Bringing a being into existence inflicts harm (both immediately and down the road) that could have otherwise been avoided
3) Thus, it is wrong to bring a being into existence
There are two common objections I've seen to this argument. The first is that the argument is asymmetrical; is it also good to bring pleasure, and bringing a being into existence also brings pleasure. The second is that the antinatalist view ultimately can entail promortalism - the view that it is a moral imperative to kill beings in order to reduce future harm.
There are other possible objections, including a metaethical attack on the utilitarian approach that this argument is obviously based upon, as well as the "b-b-b-but babies are so cute, and humanity's so great!!!" view (I'm clearly not symathetic to the latter).
Personally, I am sympathetic to this view, but have not given it much thought overall. What do you think?
(To read a little more about antinatalism, I've found a blog here that gives a decent overview, although the writing is extremely pretentious. Also, as a bonus for you libertarians out there, part 2 of the essay brings Rothbard into the discussion) _________________
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Shiranu The I'Cie

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Posted: Mon Mar 17, 2008 12:38 am Post subject: |
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Myself, I picked "For many people, yes. But if there's a good chance of a charmed life, a person may procreate ethically".
Why? Because if you cant support your kid to the fullest, cant make sure it gets a proper education, make sure it can think for its self, make sure it will never have to worry about food/entertainment/etc intil lits living on its own, and when its living on its own you will have instilled enough of a work ethic for it to survive and provide for its self and its family... you have no right to be having a kid. Im surrounded by fucking morons whos parents should have NEVER had a kid, because they dont CARE if their kids starved, never had a blip of joy in their life, etc, they just do it for the fun of sex, people to take care of them and their chores, and tax exemptions.
Although, being surrounded by these people has made me very cynical of who should and shouldn't be procreating. _________________ Can this be what we've become? Paper-thin, overweight, pills to arouse or sedate, still we don't know what we want.
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Posted: Mon Mar 17, 2008 1:29 am Post subject: |
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the question to ask is how many people regret being born? I'd say not many. so this idea of having kids being immoral doesn't hold water to me.
besides what is the point of morality, other than to help us as a species get along and cooperate with each other to our mutual benefit?
how would not having kids help our species survive? it wouldn't. it would refute the whole reason for morality, imo. |
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transientangent Forum Leader


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Posted: Mon Mar 17, 2008 2:22 am Post subject: |
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A hard life can still be a good life. I think the matter is more contingent upon what sort of parents your hypothetical couple would be. Decadence does not imply a life well lived and poverty does not imply a lfe with love, friends, and character. If you're not going to give your children everything then you've sort of lost the biological motivation already. _________________ everything is changing
a constant flow
our existence - a photograph
the time - like slow-motion
did someone realize
that our life is based
on the history we've been taught
we are living the results of a lie
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atheod Forum Master


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Posted: Mon Mar 17, 2008 3:13 am Post subject: Re: Antinatalism |
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| Philosophos wrote: | Antinatalism is the view that it is wrong to procreate. I was personally first made aware of this view by Hookflash on the old IG forums. This view was most recently defended by David Benatar in his book Better To Never Have Been, with roots in Schopenhauer. The argument is involved (in order to defend against defeaters), but can be distilled to an informal syllogism:
1) It is wrong to inflict harm
2) Bringing a being into existence inflicts harm (both immediately and down the road) that could have otherwise been avoided
3) Thus, it is wrong to bring a being into existence
There are two common objections I've seen to this argument. The first is that the argument is asymmetrical; is it also good to bring pleasure, and bringing a being into existence also brings pleasure. The second is that the antinatalist view ultimately can entail promortalism - the view that it is a moral imperative to kill beings in order to reduce future harm.
There are other possible objections, including a metaethical attack on the utilitarian approach that this argument is obviously based upon, as well as the "b-b-b-but babies are so cute, and humanity's so great!!!" view (I'm clearly not symathetic to the latter).
Personally, I am sympathetic to this view, but have not given it much thought overall. What do you think?
(To read a little more about antinatalism, I've found a blog here that gives a decent overview, although the writing is extremely pretentious. Also, as a bonus for you libertarians out there, part 2 of the essay brings Rothbard into the discussion) |
Antinatalists need to die out. |
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Hit_me_up024 Forum Master


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Posted: Mon Mar 17, 2008 12:12 pm Post subject: |
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no offense intended but whats the purpose of this thread? The sexual desire to pro-create is natural, why should that be righ or wrong? shouldnt it just be. There are always going to be different levels of society, thats no reason to not pro-create. No reproduction the species will eventually become extinct. Its a proven fact that each dominating species always has a demise and eventually dissapears _________________ babygirl say she a lady and important to? Well i got the xray i see the whore in you. haha
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Philosophos When we look at you, we see an asshole

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Posted: Mon Mar 17, 2008 7:13 pm Post subject: |
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| Hit_me_up024 wrote: | | no offense intended but whats the purpose of this thread? The sexual desire to pro-create is natural, why should that be righ or wrong? |
If what's natural is always what's good, then everyone'd be ethically smacking stoners upside the head.
This thread is asking whether it is ethical to procreate. _________________
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PJS Forum Master Po

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Posted: Mon Mar 17, 2008 7:34 pm Post subject: |
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Morality as a timeless, general moral law seems to break down. Individuals deal with specific problems in particular circumstances. One can imagine circumstances where the likely harm may justify not bringing beings into the world. However, the specific details of one's situation can not be trivialized. The experimentalist in me would compare the procreative decision to a hypothesis- one whose outcome may be difficult to predict.
Wouldn't many or most acts in this world bring with them the potential for harm to someone, or some being, in some way? If this is enough to preclude an act, we may not be left with much. _________________ The path of least resistance and least trouble is a mental rut already made. It requires troublesome work to undertake the alternation of old beliefs.
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Philosophos When we look at you, we see an asshole

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Posted: Mon Mar 17, 2008 7:53 pm Post subject: |
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| PJS wrote: | | Wouldn't many or most acts in this world bring with them the potential for harm to someone, or some being, in some way? If this is enough to preclude an act, we may not be left with much. |
As the normative theory utilized by Benatar was utilitarianism, this is not of any concern. _________________
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Shiranu The I'Cie

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Posted: Mon Mar 17, 2008 8:07 pm Post subject: |
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| hillbillyatheist wrote: | the question to ask is how many people regret being born? I'd say not many. so this idea of having kids being immoral doesn't hold water to me.
besides what is the point of morality, other than to help us as a species get along and cooperate with each other to our mutual benefit?
how would not having kids help our species survive? it wouldn't. it would refute the whole reason for morality, imo. |
I regret being born, so that probally lead to my cynical veiw on child birth. I rather have never been born and have never known anything then the alternative. But the last couple of years hof my life have been complete shit, so that opinion will probally change in a couple of yeatrs, so...ask me then  _________________ Can this be what we've become? Paper-thin, overweight, pills to arouse or sedate, still we don't know what we want.
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PJS Forum Master Po

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Posted: Mon Mar 17, 2008 8:33 pm Post subject: |
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| Philosophos wrote: | | PJS wrote: | | Wouldn't many or most acts in this world bring with them the potential for harm to someone, or some being, in some way? If this is enough to preclude an act, we may not be left with much. |
As the normative theory utilized by Benatar was utilitarianism, this is not of any concern. |
Yes, I think I follow you.
My main argument regarding the op is that the environment and situations we find ourselves in are constantly changing. We can not easily predict how our actions will play out in the world. Moral reasoning is tenuous and specific to ourselves and our circumstances. Precise calculations of pain and pleasure -importing mathematics into morals- is a precision unlikely to be attained.
Of course, I haven't studied utilitarianism in years, so my characterization of it may be off the mark . _________________ The path of least resistance and least trouble is a mental rut already made. It requires troublesome work to undertake the alternation of old beliefs.
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Philosophos When we look at you, we see an asshole

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Posted: Mon Mar 17, 2008 9:09 pm Post subject: |
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| PJS wrote: | | My main argument regarding the op is that the environment and situations we find ourselves in are constantly changing. We can not easily predict how our actions will play out in the world. Moral reasoning is tenuous and specific to ourselves and our circumstances. Precise calculations of pain and pleasure -importing mathematics into morals- is a precision unlikely to be attained. |
Few, if any, modern utilitarians believe in "util" theory - that pain and pleasure can be calculated as cardinal. But this by no means negates the theory, as ordinal utility can still be contemplated.
As for acting under uncertainty, this is no defeater, either. If we're not certain of our evaluations, we can still act according to the best of our knowledge. We do it all the time. _________________
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Raskolnikov The Axe Murderer

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Posted: Tue Mar 18, 2008 12:18 am Post subject: |
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Procreation is ABSOLUTELY NECESSARY. I don't think morals have anything to do with it. _________________ "Shake off all the fears of servile prejudices, underwhich weak minds are servilely crouched. Fix reason firmly in her seat and call on her tribunal for every fact, every opinion. Question with boldness even the existence of a God, for if there be one, he must more approve of the homage of reason, than that of blindfolded fear."
-Thomas Jefferson
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Let me preface this by saying that I don't think we should all just up and kill ourselves, or even that very miserable individuals should commit suicide. I do feel that those of us who are here might as well try to make the best of it... life can be good, can be wonderful even after we might have passed through some pretty awful times. Ultimately, I believe a person has the right to take his own life, but generally speaking, I don't think people should. Also, there's always the potential problem with suicide that the attempt will fail, but not completely. That is, it will leave you worse off than before. I don't know how foolproof any suicide method is. But a miserable person can usually take action to try to improve his life.
Also, while here people might as well try to help others.
Now, to answer the question: in my view, procreation is wrong.
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Like Rask, I don't really consider the question within the realm of Morality. Could it be that there are just a group of people attempting to moralize a subject that has nothing to do with morality? (kinda like Christians do with Pre-marital sex)
1) Future pain and future pleasure are both guaranteed, no reason to emphasize one, and there is no way to gauge which will outweigh the other. It's as bad as centrally planned government, no one has the resources to make those kinds of decisions "Oh, you'll have kids... but not you."
2) Pain isn't always painful, a lot of life's greatest personal growth periods are accompanied by great pains. I.e., pain is often good. _________________ “Here, here's American Gladiators. Watch this, shut up, go back to bed America, here is American Gladiators, here is 56 channels of it! Watch these pituitary retards bang their fucking skulls together and congratulate you on the living in the land of freedom. Here you go America - you are free to do what well tell you! You are free to do what we tell you!” ~ B.Hicks
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